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Why don't you just buy a pregnancy test and see what happens?

Those boys are immature, ignore them! Sometimes it's a good idea to let your anger out once in a while or people will walk all over you.

Depends on how bad your breakup was and how long ago it was. It could either mean that he's truly happy that you were able to find someone new OR he's prolly jealous that you moved on faster than he did. IF I find out that my ex found someone within one month after our breakup I think I'd be jealous too.

If that's the first time you worked out in a while, then it's normal to be a bit sore afterwards. Next time before your workout, make sure that you stretch well and afterwards too (especially the parts you know you will be working on).

If I were you, next time she says something like that, I'd just be like, "great! have a good time!". She's getting a kick out of seeing your reactions so I think to make her stop next time just pretend that you're cool with whoever she hangs out with.

I think he was just trying to be nice. I thought it was a pretty sweet gesture.

I heard pilates is suppose to be really good for toning your abs, maybe you can spend money on some pilates videos and do that at hom, it's a lot cheaper than the machine!

I always get the two terms mixed up, so any clarification on this would be appreciated!!

Some people like to say things to make their partners jealous so that they'll feel loved and important. It's a very immature act if you ask me. If I were you, next time he says something like that I'd tell him exactly how you feel. My ex used to joke around with me like that and I told him straight up that it bothered me, so he stopped after that. He assumed that I knew he was joking and didn't know that he was actually hurting my feelings.

I attended a fairly prestigious state university for my undergrad but my grades were mediocre. For my overall GPA I think I had around 2.6-2.7 and for my major GPA it was like a 2.9 or close to 3.0. My current company offers tuition reimbursement for grad school and I've been thinking about going back to school to get my masters degree. I currently live in a different state and since I will be working full-time at the same time, it's easier for me to attend the one state university that's near where I live currently. The problem is that I'm worried that my GPA would not be good enough for the school, and that's the one reason why I've been putting off the application process for a while. I know the process relies heavily on the GMAT score and your academic performace from the undergrad years. Do you guys think that even if I get a pretty good GMAT score that I would have a chance to get in with my GPA?

lol my ex and I only baby talk to be funny, but we don't do it all the time. I thought it was kinda cute I think baby talk is ok when you do it in private, I would NEVER EVER do it in front of our friends and neither would he. I know I definitely wouldn't enjoy hearing other people babytalking in front of me haha.

One of my ex-bfs had mono the one the summer and I still hung out with him. I think we even slept in the same bed and everything. He was bed ridden for a while but I never got sick . . .

Why did you guys break up?

I know your daughter would probably like the privacy by having her own bedroom, but is it really necessary for you guys to have a 2 bedroom apt? I'm just trying to help you save up on the cost of living. My parents were both blue collar workers so I totally understand where you are coming from. I remember when we were still in junior high or high school, my parents were too poor to afford a 3 bedroom apt, so we only have a one bedroom apt where I shared a room with my brother while my parents slept in the living room. That worked out ok for us and my parents were able to save some money from rent.

I dunno what to do. My ex of nearly two years broke up with me at the beginning of Nov. due to various reasons -- communication problems, our differences in personalities and interests, and the fact that he was still hung up about something I had done in the past before I met him. After the breakup, we went from no contact, to limited contact, and then on the night before new year's eve we hung out together in a group setting. We both got pretty drunk that night and one thing led to another, I ended up going back to his place and we slept together. We had a talk afterwards and now he wants me back. I'm reluctant because we had done this once before. We broke up the first time over the same exact reasons but we ended up getting back together because we thought we'd try to work on our problems. Well that didn't really work out because honestly, I don't think neither of us really put in the effort to make the relationship work. He was the once who initiated the breakup both imes and I really can't trust him anymore. He'll break up with me with he's not happy with the relationship, and then he'll start to miss me and regret about his decision and ask me back. My head is telling me that I should not get back with him because he's going to break my heart again, but yet my heart is telling me to give him another chance. He has said a lot of nice things to me that are making me believe that he really wants to try to make things work out this time around, but I dunno if he's just saying that because he just misses me and this is just a desperate ploy to get me back, or does he REALLY want to be with me and is willing to put in the effot to make it work this time around -- does it make sense?? We didn't celebrate new year's eve together but he came over to my place on new years and we hooked up again. When he asked me again what our status is I just told him that I'm not sure. I don't think I'm going to get back with him right away until he has shown me that he's really putting in the effort to win me back. Right now we'll just hang out and see how things go. I know it's a bad idea and I'm worried that I'll get attached, but I just dunno how else to approach this.

Chest hair -- no Facial hair -- a little bit is fine, but NO beard!!!

I think you should write to your ex and ask her to send your things back. I don't think it's necessary to get her parents involved. If I were you I'd just send her a short email asking how she is doing and if she would mind sending your things back to you in CA. Offer to pay for the shipping costs too. Just make sure that the email doesn't get too personal.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. But like you said, if I were you I'd be concerned with her because of her age. Is she mature for her age? I think that makes a big difference. People in their early 20's have a total different mentality than the people in their late 20's, you just wanna make sure that she's on the same page as you regarding the future of this relationship. I know if I were still in my early 20's I would probably not want to settle down yet.

It's perfectly normal. I went through the SAME exact thing two months ago when I broke up with my ex. Everywhere I go I saw things that reminded me of my ex and it would make my eyes water. But trust me, it goes away with time. I'm starting to think about him less and less as time went by. Just try to keep yourself busy and focus on other things that make you happy. Good luck!

Well, was she in the bed alone? Or was he in the same bed? In my opinion, I don't think she did anything, because why else would she tell you? If she was feeling guilty about it then she probably wouldn't even have said anything, being that you guys are in a LDR and you probably won't even find out about it. You just need to ask yourself, do YOU trust her?

Well when I went to the doctor's office they told me my eyes weren't infected, but they were exposed to some sort of allergens that irritated my eyes. I suspected that it was caused by my contacts because I've never had any allergies before this, so I don't think it's caused by pollen or dust. I did however, switched to a new brand of eye contact solution, but I believe that was a couple of months before my new contacts. I've been a faithful customer of Bausch & Lomb solution until I read articles saying that they cause infections, that's when I decided to switch over to OptiFree. I bought another bottle of contact solution last nite and soaked my contacts in them overnight. I think I'm going to try putting my contacts in a few days when my eyes get better and see if that helps. This really stinks because I've been stuck wearing my contacts for the past few weeks and they are a pain in the butt when I'm trying to workout! Btw, I can't wear disposable lenses because of my astigmatism. The ones I'm wearing right now are permanent and they are called OptiFit 3 from Wesley Jensen. They come in colored or clear. I've been wearing the colored ones for a few years now and I've never had any problems. But this time I decided to switch to the clear ones. They costed me $250 for both lens and I doubt they would let me return or exchange them

I think I may be allergic to my contacts, but I'm not quite sure. I've recently ordered a new pair of contacts and they are the same brand as what I wore before, except this time they are clear instead of colored. I've been having problems with them because my eyes will turn bright red after I have them in and after I take them out my eyes become really irritated and sensitive to light. I went to see an ophthalmologist and was told that I have allergies and told me to stop wearing contacts for a while until they get better. I was also prescribed an eye drop to help with the irritation. Went back after a couple of days and was told that my eyes looked a lot better and that I can resume wearing contacts. Well the problem didn't go away, they still make my eyes turn really red after I wear them. Has anyone ever experienced the same problem? I've debated about switching contacts but they costed me $250!

If you don't like the stuffed animal, you should just joke about it and hint it to her not to get it for you next time, you don't need to blow up at her and be rude about it. If I were your gf I'd be pissed too. I've given stuffed animals to my ex-boyfriends before and they all loved it. I really think you just need to lighten up . . .

Hmmmm I went out with my ex-bf for about two years and we have never said I love you to each other. But then again, I was never in love with him . . . I liked him and cared for him a lot, but I was just not in love with him . . . Maybe your man is just not that vocal about saying these kind of things. I know I would never say it until the other person says it first . . . but that's just me.

What are you scared of? The pain? If you have good dental hygiene then you should have nothing to worry about. It's really not as bad as you think!