nickolas
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I dont want to break up with her.If i wanted to break up with her i would of done it before i started this stupid affair.
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Telling my girlfriend is not an option.Really would never hurt her like that.If i did choose to break up with her i would just do it without disgracing her.And i know for a fact if she found out we would be over,i know she would never forgive that.
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Hey Ellie, dont get me wrong im not a total dirtbag i too do everything for her,i can honestly say i have never did anything wrong to this person(except the obvious and probably the worst thing you can do to someone you love)we have a great balance of giving.Shes a very smart girl and wouldnt be with someone that just constantly takes.And i enjoy doing things for her.Ive never done this before and thats why its killing me,i looked my whole life for someone like her.Im pretty sure after reading these posts i am going to end my affair very soon.My girl is more than willing to do anything sexual i ask her,(except a threesome)but i would never want to do that with her anyway,i dont think i could ever face her afterwards.She never denies me anything in the bedroom.I just want to feel more excitment with her than everything would be perfect.
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If she was a taker than i wouldnt be with her.Shes the most giving person i have ever been with.
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I know for a fact that if i leave my girlfriend for this other woman it would be the wrong move in the long run.The other one is just very high maint.and its something i dont want to deal with.Where on the other hand if i hit tough times my gf would get a second job to help out.I do love my girlfriend so all the people here telling me i dont are completely wrong.
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Alive2...You hit the nail on the head.I know my gf is the right choice.She is definetly the one that would stand by me no matter what.Other than if she found out about the misstress.And i could never face her if she found out.She would be completely crushed and devastated,shes such a sweet girl and knowing that i hurt her in this way would kill me.
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You mention that your gf is a 'simple girl'. What do you mean by that? I mean she dosent get her hair,nails,waxed,once a week.Dosent care about materialistic things.Always tries to make me happy even if she has to sacrifice.I just feel like theres no chemistry between us anymore.But i dont want to lose her either.I know im being {mod edit} up.Thats why i posted my problem in a public forum.So i can get advise.I know i should dump the married one,but the spark is so strong.
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Im sorry i left out that the engaged woman,told me if i give her the green light she will break off her engagement.We do talk and she is in love with me.I am not trying to gain anything from this.And i absolutely would feel horrible if my girlfriend found out i betrayed her.I just dont know what the right thing to do is.I truly love my girlfriend and like i said she is perfect for me.The other one is alot of fun but like i said very high maintanence.And whos to say she wont cheat on me.
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OK i will keep it as short as possible.About 4months ago i started cheating on my girlfriend of one and a half years.I love my girlfriend and she is great for me in every way.She lives about a 2 hr drive from here.One day this gorgeous woman hits on me i go into it thinkinking its only going to be a one night stand.Shes engaged and lives with her fiance.But we have started having an affair the sex is out of this world.And do to the fact my girfriend dosent live near me.And the woman im having the affair with her fiance dosent get home till very late every night,we get to see each other alot.Between the guilt im feeling and the lying its really bothering me.But i just cant get this woman out of my head.My girl is great she does everything for me.Shes a simple girl and would make a great wife.The married one is very high maintenance.And she is also 10yrs older than me.I know shes bad for me but when im with my girlfriend i still think of this one.I know what im doing is wrong,im just asking for advice,i dont need anyone here reprimanding me.
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I really didnt look for this,it found me.I know it dosent make it right but i have known this other women for yrs.And i always wanted to sleep with her.I dont want to have an affair.But my girlfriend is the greatest thing that ever happen to me,and for her to hurt because of me would kill me.I know what the right thing to do is.But i really want to sleep with this other women.
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Hi,im kind of embarraced posting this so here goes.I have been with this girl for about a yr. now.She is great in everyway and i truly love her,and i would hate to hurt her in anyway.But i made a date for tomorrow night with a absolutely gorgeous women,which is engaged.She came on to me.We are both in relationships and its only going to be physical.I really want to sleep with this women but i cant get my girlfriend out of my head.What the hell should i do?