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hey u know what d only thing which i can tell you right now....time give yourself time be patient....gradually u will heal evryone does.......but be patient n give yourself time...dont push yourself to get over her......just let it go n go with the flow.......the more u push yourself the harder it will be.....take care

you know what dnt ask questions just go with the flow...whatever happens happens for the best........just concentrate on yourself and your own self development right now.....whatevr has to happen is going to happen dont ask urself wht if? n all these knd of questions.....

i am really happy and glad for you........u go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey babes, i understand wat u r goin thru is hard......but u got 2 make a decision u have two choices ahead of you either you can just go on complaining OH GOD!why of all people me n continue being miserable or you can just accept it that he is gone and hes not gonna cum back ever again..once you accept it it will be easier for you to move on the longer you deny the harder it will be u spent 3 years of your life with him ofcourse itz gonna take time to get over that guy.....stop hurrying yourself and take things easy.gradually on its own the pain will go away and you will heal.......just stop questioning as to why its takin so much time and let time do its own thing ok and believe me sweetheart even if he does come back to you if hes done it once he will do it again i think you deserve someone way much better and the day you start believing that yourself your healing process will start......take care

hey i think you need to go to a psychiatrist and start therapy....cutting yourself,trying to commit suicide......these are cowardly ways to deal with life........and trust me people are goin thru worse situations than this........be thankful to GOD that you are goin to school and you have a mom who cares about you start focusing on the things which are positive in your life instead of things which you dont have...............so cheer up and please go and see a psychiatrist.........

HI.............i just want you to listen to my story n how i got over this guy maybe that might help...we were going out for a year he was 20 and i was 19 its been 4 months since my breakup with him we were best friends since a year n a half n were going out for about 9 months.i was crazy about him till one day out of the blue he told me he couldnt continue with me anymore because of whatever problems we were facing in our relationship.Initially i was completely numb didnt know what was going on.I had planned my whole life around this guy so lookin into the future and not seeing him there with me in it was extremely scary.I went through all the stages of denial,depression,anger,anxiety n pain.My advice to you would be firstly what you need to do is accept that its over things are never going to be the same again keep on telling yourself this again n again accept it....after that analyse what is it that is not allowing you to let go?you are missing all the oppurtunities of your future since u r wallowing in the past.i agree it is very hard n it completely sucks but u r in school u r so young u have such amazing wonderfull experiences waitin for u rite around the corner.it is always easier to to hold on than to let go.but let go for yourself,for your own good.trust me pain does go away,things do get better,n when that pain shall pass you will be happier,stronger n more aware..cheer up n start enjoying life.i think you have wallowed enough.... why are you wallowing for a person who is living happily with someone else?

HI.............i just want you to listen to my story n how i got over this guy maybe that might help...we were going out for a year he was 20 and i was 19 its been 4 months since my breakup with him we were best friends since a year n a half n were going out for about 9 months.i was crazy about him till one day out of the blue he told me he couldnt continue with me anymore because of whatever problems we were facing in our relationship.Initially i was completely numb didnt know what was going on.I had planned my whole life around this guy so lookin into the future and not seeing him there with me in it was extremely scary.I went through all the stages of denial,depression,anger,anxiety n pain.My advice to you would be firstly what you need to do is accept that its over things are never going to be the same again keep on telling yourself this again n again accept it....after that analyse what is it that is not allowing you to let go?you are missing all the oppurtunities of your future since u r wallowing in the past.i agree it is very hard n it completely sucks but u r in school u r so young u have such amazing wonderfull experiences waitin for u rite around the corner.it is always easier to to hold on than to let go.but let go for yourself,for your own good.trust me pain does go away,things do get better,n when that pain shall pass you will be happier,stronger n more aware..cheer up n start enjoying life.i think you have wallowed enough....