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when a girl watch her boyfriend talk to a pretty girl , it would probably pose a threat to herself , she might feel that her relationship is being tested . if she is not confident in herself she would ask for a break-up just do not want to feel insecure whenever got pretty girl come to you . you should always assure her that you care about her , like say I LOVE YOU whenever you got opportunity.
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this is a story of a friend of mine . after breaking up , she just tend to avoid guy who always tell the sweet words that girl normally like it so much , as you can imagine , she is now a girl who are very scared of falling in a relationship . i am so pitiful to her . like an idiom in chinese," a day you are stung by bee , you will scared of it the rest of your life ." break up does make people change a lot .
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first of all , i need to know how you could have his password ,if the password is willingly given by him ,there arise 2 question . 1) is it just a fake password where you may not find his wrongdoings ??( he got more than 1 ) 2) why did he give you the password ?? ( is he really trust you ? )
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if you really love her why don't you take initiative to rescue her from those immature guys ?? you could be a white knight to lead her to a bright path . you' better make decision either do it or not do it , rather than making yourself so suffering just watching those guys do something bad towards her.
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i think he might be worn out already after such a hot exercise . normally kiss take place before sexual .kiss may bring lady to that destination which man "desire" most .but after what he got , he would normally ignore it or too tired to do the same thing .
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love will come to you naturally and unexpectedly, as what you said you just did not feel any connection with them, but why don't you give them more time to prove themselves like make friends first and try to learn more from them instead of everything is based on the date . remember , love is like a flower need time and attention to grow it up . to me , know more about a person in a first place before start a relationship is better than a first time meet.
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like and love is totally different thing, love involve both person feel that they are not having something in common but care for each others feelings , but like do not . think about it .!!
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you should introduce her to your parent and friends to make her mix with them, so that she or you can have more time together and know more each other without having take some break like you are planning to do .
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it could be someone playing in his mind who are always have a smiling face , it could be his ex or someone he could never get along with , such as a movie star .you may try to find out why he is so concerned about it . you should tell him that smiling need motivation and it does not request a command like he did to you ,the most important thing is what motivate a person to smile , it could be a jokes told by a guy to a girl to make her feel that he is care for her bad mood . wish you happy and smile often not by command but by sweet words from him .
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distance love definitely make people feel uncomfortable,we will keep worry about whether there are anyone try to go near to him or her that eventually connected and come to you ask for a break-up . nonetheless, we should think positively, got a distance in love not alltogether is bad but good too , both of you may know if your relationship is in shaky ,stagnate , steady or getting stronger . now ,it is the time you got to measure it out .
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test may cause him feel pressure that you do not trust him or he might do the same trick to test you back. eventually , your relationship will result in testing battle field . wish you a nice day .
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guys normally makes such mistakes like hang out with friends more than his lover . he would feel lonely and miss you when his friends meet him lesser and lesser , that is what i felt when i gratuated from university for 2 years,the only friends that close to me of course was my gf who really want to stay and care about you. i think he does not prepare to be a caring person , what you need to do is showing your care and wait for him to truly talk the things out .
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how can you tell when it's more than just sex?
wexmen replied to SeaBisquit's topic in Relationship Advice
you may try to say no whenever he ask for it ,and notice his reponse to your reject.if he really care about you he will try to stick around with you without asking for sex . in my opinion, having sex may strenghten relationship, but if sex dominate it, it could be a nightmare . wish you found your true love. -
i do agree that good looking people have more advantage than others in terms of relationship.like someone up there said guys normallly are shallow minded but it is true , whenever a pretty girl do something not nice , guys normally forgive her instantly just because a short period young good looking face . below is a story about different treatment from a guys . the guys say if i spend 1 dollar for a pretty girl.the 1 dollar is still a 1 dollar , if i spend 1 dollar for a normal looking one, 1 dollar could be 1000 dollar .do you all get what it means ?? my perception to this story is the guys prefer to spend more for pretty girl and feel it is not worth for a normal looking one . what do you think ??
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haha, i think she is not flirting but pretend to be friendly . in my university, this happen all the time whenever a girl need help , they will try to come close with guys for trying to pursue them to help her or you might say that she is taking advantage of them .