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scaruff

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  1. Keep practicing and learn techniques for your future partners in your life. People like skilled lovers. Happy sex to you!
  2. You have a great understanding of this already. Very smart. Hang in there.
  3. How long have you been dating? A period of uncertaintly is actually normal. If I were you, I wouldn't contact him. I would wait for him to contact you. And when he does contact you, I wouldn't ask him any questions on why he went through this period of uncertainty. I would keep it light and breezy and be receptive. I recommend John Gray's book, Mars and Venus on a Date, this book actually explains that in dating there are 5 distinct stages: attraction, uncertaintly, exclusiveness, intimacy and engagement. It sounds as though your guy has hit stage 2. Get the book and read it. You'll learn a lot from it.
  4. Sorry but this is way too Jerry Springer. I don't believe any of it.
  5. Why aren't you feeling as happy as you expected in your marriage?
  6. Yes, something is undeniably wrong when in the span of 18 months (I joined in July '05) that I did not go out on one single date from eharmony. I am attractive and I don't think my pictures turned them off. Many of my matches were accross the country, the ones I made it to stage 4 with lost interest....so, I don't know what's going on??? It's actually a little embarrassing Maybe it's not for me. I cancelled my subscription. Thank you for the book recommendation. If I decide to pick up online dating again, I will be sure to look into the Rules of Online Dating.
  7. He lives about 4-5 hours away. I have noticed too that when a guy gives me his email address becore he's asked me out on a date, things go downhill. I am surprised this early on that he only asked me one question (is that a guy thing-not to ask questions, just tell all about themselves?). I don't have a good feeling about this. I am thinking of not emailing him. I'll probably close him out. Sigh, I have been on eharmony for 18 months and I have not been on one single date. Oh well.
  8. I am communicating with one of my matches from eharmony by email on eharmony. He gave me his personal email today and wrote: "Here is my email if you're up for that".....what did he mean with "if you're up for that"? I mean we're already 'emailing' on eharmony...... Another thing is he did not ask me any questions...he just told me about his some of his hobbies. So what am I supposed to do? Ask ALL the questions and have him ask me nothing? I always end up feeling like an 'interviewer' what's the deal with the guy asking me no questions???
  9. Thanks Elektra and Heartshock... BUT are there any men who want to state their thoughts on what my friend said? Please men, I need some help here!
  10. I am 26 and dying to know what the men think about this...not that I don't appreciate your responses ElektraHere. I just don't want to lose my faith in men. His statements have shaken me a bit, honestly.
  11. He emphasized that not all men are like this, but in general most men are. He said that this is what surveys state....he's a very analytical type of guy. He's in the scientific field. I would love to know what the men here are going to say.....Please help!
  12. A male friend in his mid twenties told me that the majority of men lie to women and that they really don't respect them. He also told me that the main reason men get married is because of sex (having children and companionship were other reasons). He also added that men only have conversations with women because of sex. Then they get married to one girl, only because it's "really hard" to find girls to have sex with in the dating scene. Please tell me that not men all men are like this! Although, he also said that if a man says that it's not true, they are only playing the "sensitive" card to get women. I do not wan't to lose faith in men I feel odd now if a man strikes up a conversation with me now...if what my friend said is generally true. I would hate to be with someone that did not respect me and only viewed me as a sex object and a pod to have children....PLEASE help!
  13. What type of standards are you looking for? Is it the girl's career/education? Her weight? Her age? Her appearance? Her family?
  14. She sounds kind of immature, actually. She probably just enjoys flirting with you. Some girls just like to flirt. I do things like that myself...never with any intention of it going further than just a playful flirting session.
  15. I was having a conversation with guy that I like (I am a female) about doing rebellious things. He said that everyone should do some 'rebellious' things in their lives (just once) like: go to a gay bar, drink too much one time, smoke marijuana once, and go to a strip club. I told him that I would tell him the things I did only after what he told me he did. He said that he has gone to a gay bar and smoked pot, but never been to a strip club. I found it strange that he would have been to a gay bar (he says he is straight) but he has never gone to a stip club. I don't know if he went to a lesbian bar or gay bar. Question: My is: Would a straight man ever go to a gay bar, even once?
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