REDIRECT43
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Hahahaha, I'm sorry but that is too funny.
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For a month or so. He really is a jerk. I liked him alot.
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I posted a couple days ago about how I broke up with my bf because he made a Myspace page which said he was single and looking for a "smart girl with aspirations and goals." I thought I had overreacted, since we never had the exclusivity talk but I didn't think we had to. Anyway, he flipped out. I had a movie of his that I was supposed to return but I never got around to returning it at the beginning of the week. The other night he text me "Where's my movie?" And I text back "Where's my apology?" He said I wasn't getting one. So for 2 hours I got a burrage of text messages that were rather quite mean. I'm a ****, I'm stupid, I'm jealous of him..etc. I ignored most of the texts and I think that made him very mad. He sent a text saying "I better have my movie by Friday!" and then he called right after. I talked to him for an hour, and he couldn't understand why I was mad about Myspace. He flat out told me I do not meet the criteria he stated on his Myspace. I said "Ok if I'm not the one I'm not going to hang around while you search for her!" He was really upset. He said I was going to go out this weekend and find a new guy and do the same sexual things with him that he and I did together. WHY DOES HE CARE? We ended the phone call with him saying "Have fun partying this weekend, and with that guy" WHAT GUY? I dropped his movie off in his mailbox yesterday and text him saying that it was in the mailbox. He text back "You should realize that you and I have the ability to make alot of money." I said "Ok why?" And he said "Because you are business savy." This guy is nuts! WHat is his deal? If I'm not the giirl he's looking for, why is he so upset?
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LOL thanks everyone for your responses. I was really questioning whether my reaction was justified. We never really had an exclusivity talk, but I didn't think we had to. We hung out everyday, talked on the phone everyday, and we were intimate. I assumed that we were exclusive. I just cannot believe someone would be that dumb to request the girl he's seeing as a friend on Myspace, knowing she would read that. Unless he did it on purpose to see what I would do. He did seem insecure on Sat. when he accused me of giggling and then the next day made the Myspace. I guess it doesn't matter now, but jeez what a moron!
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Well I think he just said that to spite me. He was pretty upset that I had ended things. But then again, if he didn't want things to end he wouldn't have put that on his Myspace, correct?
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Hey all, have not posted in a while. Well I had been seeing this guy for a month. Everything was going really well. On Saturday night we were supposed to hang out. He called at 9 as I was about to get gas. I giggled about something and I don't even remember giggling, but he says I giggled. Hegot mad and accused me of having another guy in the car. This came out of left field. He accused me of playing games with him and trying to piss him off. Ok? I was just getting gas! So we talked and worked out that little tiff. I thought things were back to being awesome. That is until he made a Myspace page. He made it over the weekend and he sent me a friend request. I accepted and text him joking about it. Then I read what he had wrote on his page. In his "Who You'd Like To Meet" section he put "A smart girl with ambition and respect" and some other things. In his "Here For" section he put "Networking, Dating, and Friends." I was not happy. It felt like a slap in the face, the fact that he knowingly sent me a friend request after putting that in his profile did not sit well. I ended things with him. I told him that was not going to fly. He didn't understand what the big deal was and told me I was crazy and hung up on me. He text me soon after hanging up on me and said "You should realize that I don't respect women. I gave you a change to be my friend." Bla bla bla it really made no sense. Things were going really well, and I can't understand why he would put that in his Myspace page and request me as a friend. I didn't ask him to remove it as some of my friends suggested. I just dumped him. Now I am sort of having second thoughts. What do you all think?
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And I've talked to him every day in the past month, we just haven't gone out and hung out or anything like that.
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I'm cool with it being just about sex, but now it's just confusing. I have been avoiding him for the past month, simply because of the confusion. He will ask me out to dinner, he wanted to go to dinner last week but I told him I was too busy. I don't know what he wants, and I don't really know how to bring it up. Either way I'm happy but meeting his mom creeped me out.
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Ok I have posted in the past couple months about the guy I've been dating/hooking up with. I had sex with him right off the bat and we agreed that it was just to be a hooking up affair. Well, he took me out on dates, showed up to the bars I go to...and he's invited me to dinner. I haven't seen him in about a month because I had written him off pretty much. Monday he texts me and asks me to meet him for drinks and watch him play pool. So I did. He didn't tell me his mom would be there. It was realllllly weird. I talked to his mom, very nice woman. I met his co-workers. Now I'm inclined to think that guy's, especially momma's boys, do not introduce the girl they hook up with to their mom's. Am I right? By the way, I did not go home with him. I gave him a kiss good night and left.
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How to give two weeks notice
REDIRECT43 replied to REDIRECT43's topic in Career, Money and Education
Haha yea I would love to just not show up. I've always done that in the past during my teen years..but I can't really with this job. I need the references and plus, they are like family...which also makes quitting hard. -
Ok I am ready to quit my job, school starts tomorrow and there is no way I can put in only 10 hours and get paid minimum wage at my job. I found another job waitressing that I can start as soon as I can, but I have to give my two weeks. I've never had to quit a job formally before. How do I bring it up? What do I say? What if they try to talk to me out of it?
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Can a relationship work if only one half tries?
REDIRECT43 replied to 99ways2killasuperhero's topic in Relationship Advice
I don't think she's that interested in you to be honest... -
You're like one of her girlfriends, except the anatomical difference. Sorry.
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It wouldn't have been so bad had he not come on so strong. Like I said, I'd talked to him once on the phone for like 20 minutes, and in that 20 minutes he said we clicked. I'm a very outgoing person, and I laugh alot. Somehow he interpreted this as us clicking. I remember making a joke about something and he started laughing and said "That's it, we are so getting married." Yea it may have been a harmless joke on his part, but I don't even know him! He also invited me to a wedding during our one phone conversation. I told him I didn't know what my schedule would be like that day, and he told me to keep that day open. And one time at the bar he tried to hold my hand. I haven't led him on in the least bit. He also shoved one of my best guy friends out of the way when he tried to dance with me at the club. I don't know if this guy is psycho or what but I'd really like to get rid of him!
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My friend and I were out one night at a bar and she ran into of her old friends. He told her he thought I was gorgeous so she hooked us up. We went out last week for dinner. It was a nice dinner, but there were some things I didn't like about him. He was too open about his sexual past, I didn't even ask him. He kept saying that his friends were putting pressure on him not to screw things up with me. I had only talked to him on the phone once before! He told me that we clicked. I was kind of creeped out. So after the date I went home and I wasn't planning on seeing him again. I felt myself that we did not click. He has called me everyday since. He texts, calls ...etc etc. I told him that he was coming on too strong and that I really wasn't looking to date him. Even after telling him this, he still calls me! He invites me to dinner, the movies. I don't know what else to do? I haven't been taking his phone calls or calling him back. He will call up my friend and ask her why I'm not calling him back and she really can't say anything because it's not her place. He shows up to the bar I frequent on the weekends and he will hang around me all night. I told him that I do not want to pursue anything more with him but he's not getting it! What am I supposed to do now?
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So I posted the other day about how my ex told me to take his name off of my MySpace page, when it wasn't even there to begin with. He said his "boy" came accross it and saw his name, which happened to be some other guy. Most likely an attempt to talk to me. So last night I log into MySpace and I have a message from some guy I don't know. Apparently this guy sent me a message a month ago, but did not know that I had been dating his friend (my ex) Now this guy's brother is my ex's best friend. So the message last night reads: Wow what a small world, I ran into a good friend of yours__________. I feel weird having sent you a message a month ago, hope I am not stepping on his toes. I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell him I messaged you, he'd be upset." Uhhhh ok. I wouldn't have known they knew each other until he said that. I wrote back "So how did you find out that I knew ____?" He responded saying he put 2 and 2 together, and told me not to tell my ex. Uhhhh ok. I then said "Well I don't talk to him anymore" and he goes "Oh well in that case what's up wanna chat?" He just went into this big schpiel about how he didn't want my ex to know he messaged me and now he wants to chat? I told him I was involved with someone else ( a lie) I am not sure if this is legit, or if my ex is somehow behind this. I seriously want this guy out of my life but he keeps popping up, or at least his friends do.
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I actually told my ex to never call me again. A week later, he sent me a text which I ignored. A month went by and then he text me AGAIN making up some story about my MySpace page. I was so mad that he contacted me again. He got mad that I was mad. I don't think it matters if you tell them you are doing NC or not...they will find some way to get into contact. But if you tell him you are doing NC, and he contacts you, prepare to be P'd off!
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I felt bad for my guy too. He really needed help, everyone told him he did but he didn't think so. I wanted to help him too but he didn't want to help himself. Though I did care about him, my emotional wellbeing was more important than his. HE couldn't even admit that he had a problem. I admitted I had a problem and left. He still tries to contact me, over stupid things. Never apologized for his behavior.
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Honey, get out now. My ex pulled the same stunt; except this stunt was pulled every week. He would hang up on me, and wouldn't answer his phone. He would turn his phone off. He was verrrrry abusive towards me. Never hit me, but I think I would have rather been hit than to deal with the emotional abuse. And the sad thing is, I have scars that will never go away. Every guy I've dated after him, I couldn't trust. I thought they would all be like him. I have never gotten over it.
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I would think that he would think it went through. I've sent texts to non existent numbers by accident and my phone said they went through. But I don't think I have to worry about him popping back into my life. I was really mean to him last night. I feel bad but he's done far worse to me.
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I can't help but be mean to him. I can honestly say I hate him, and I really don't want anything to do with him. He doesn't take hints at all. I've ignored him but he keeps coming back. I told him also last night to delete my number and he said it had been deleted for a while. Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa right.
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Ok last night I get a text message from my stupid ex. I broke up with him about a month ago because, well, he sucked. He text me once a week later after I broke up with him but I never responded. So fast forward to last night. He says "I would appreciate it if you took my name off of your MySpace account. I had NOOOO idea what he was talking about, he is not mentioned anywhere on my MySpace page. I was mad that he text me and I responded "What the ____ are you talking about?" He said his boy came accross my page and he saw his name with no picture. I have a guy in my friends list with the same name that doesn't have a picture, but he lives accross the country. I text him back and said "Dude, it's not you, get over yourself do you know how many people are named ___?" He then told me to go suck ____. I am soooo mad...I just wanted to vent about how stupid he is.
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I've never cheated per se, but it's always in the back of my mind. I am not speaking for everyone who cheats, but I will give you the reasons why I would cheat. I am TERRIFIED of getting hurt. Absolutely terrified. If I feel the relationship is about to hit the skids, or we are going through problems, I will cheat just to take the pain away. Yes, it's wrong. Yes, I should be able to communicate my fears to my partner. But I can't. Maybe I'm not as invested in the relationship, maybe I'm not as in love with my partner as I think. But I am terrified of going through pain again. Maybe I am a commitmentphobe. Who knows. I have that debilitating fear that keeps me from getting too close to a person. I can be crazy about him, but as soon as something goes wrong I panic. , and try to seek out someone else...and it has nothing to do with pleasure. Are any others out there like this?
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I do the same thing. I always think I'm going to pee but I never have. The first time I jumped off of my boyfriend and made a beeline for the toilet. He thought I was crazy lol.
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I think watching Cool boogie down would cheer anyone up! I don't know if you're male or female...but when I'm sad I get my hair and nails done. It makes me soooooo happy, I really don't know why. When I went through a heartbreak last year, I started going to the gym to make myself feel good...and got so into working out that now I'm a personal trainer! Working out definitely helps, and anyone can do it.