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  1. Belgian girl
    I will only see him during some lessons, guess he has me under block (mssnger) again thnx for reacting
  2. Belgian girl
    thnx, that's possible a friend of him said he said him that I didn't even stopped ( I was on bike ) so that suggests he would have liked it, or that the friend is making it seems to me that it's like that but in my opinion he kept on looking deep/flirty into my eyes, it's that what confused me
  3. Belgian girl
    Yes, it's me at the picture (as profile picture another one). (at the moment I do have darkbrown hear but I understand that there could be a lot of reasons) But in this case I think it's about my interests maybe and also that he didn't expect to have a relationship but I don't want to have sex or things like that without having a relationship and I thought he wanted to be together as well. Somebody who knows what such an expression could say (or nothing?)?
  4. Belgian girl
    This is like he looked (but a more natural/bigger smile, I thought) at me when we saw each other on the street in the beginning of the week. Didn't expect that he would react with lookin' in my eyes and smile (see eventually previous posts). He had me blocked (Mssnger) and what happened was only for that evening mentioned. It's like I feel that there's something missing at me or what I'm doing that doesn't make him (middle) atracted / not want a relationship or something, but I don't know what. Anyways, he's much more beautiful and smarter than I am. link removed
  5. Belgian girl
    thank you again I like your points and I understood that it isn't general (at all), but b/c it suits mine I can use them here also the majority seems to be very open, it's b/c of that I asked that question I don't know so well anymore how to go on with that (b/c why should I want/handle different than almost everyone.. and doing it for myself won't be a reason anymore as well, I think). Now I ask myself (I think I am/was 'an easy girl', well, I've never given in into sex(though I've been together for 9months and I really would have liked that with other boys who asked as well), so maybe not that easy, but I give a relationship/flirt quiete easy a chance, I ask myself what would happen if I stop doing that and make up more limits and higher expectations (like the most girls do), and if it would make me less easy to get and if it makes me attracted by other boys (who don't doesn't want a relationship except having sex)..
  6. Belgian girl
    thanks, that long answer gave some good points to pay attention to for me. What about sexual history (maybe not the best topic to ask for but it goes on my mind the last time.. for ex. I find the idea that my partner has done that before (even that) disgusting especially if it wasn't out of love and / or with a lot of people / very often), but I'm already changing my mind a little (maybe it also was b/c of being jealous)?
  7. Belgian girl
    It's like I have not that much interesting to talk about, there also doesn't happen that much special in my life the last time. Like I'm in a circle > people that iritate/annoy me/ come to me with their problems/ are seighing at moments that I'm looking forward to something or when I'm enthousiastic > almost nobody who's hearing me or asking about me, like I can't express myself (and when I try to it feels like it ends up that they don't understand me)
  8. Belgian girl
    I live in the dutch speaking part of Belgium but I can speak french but not very detailed. Hmm but it feels like it takes of my freedom, the same stories some people for ex. keep on telling me or when it's like people I can't avoid are thinking in a way that's a lower level than I am
  9. Belgian girl
    predictable could be.. and too much focus on emotions, not enough sensation probably, personal instead of general I'm frustrated but I try to not let it show / spread it out to other people
  10. Belgian girl
    I feel like al the complains of other people has been going on to long and now I start boring people where I'm interested in. It feels like there is like 'negative energy'inside me. Anyone who recognise this or advise what to do or how to fix what I've dammaged (pushed them away)?
  11. Belgian girl
    being yourself, letting the other feel him-/herself, relax or enjoy that moment, use some humor, don't be to serious but also not the opposite, talk (also) about topics the other is interested in, find common interests, use bodylanguage / explain by using your body
  12. Belgian girl
    and then there are also the gender differences I mean, how good she umnderstands them.
  13. Belgian girl
    thank you for explain it in my place, that's right (I'm, from Belgium). I was mistaken. Thanks for the reactions. Does political direction mean a lot (if it's different)? Does the financial situation mean a lot (if it's different)?
  14. Belgian girl
    I think several general things could be: - big personality - charisma - good health / athletic body / good hygiëne / beautiful roundings - a little hard to get / not easy to understand - (a little) mysterious - could talk about interesting and several topics - the way she moves - sure of herself, taking initiative, being independent - goes her own way, has an own life, doesn't claim or talk about things tha bore - good habits - used to going on with boys and understand how they think / what they need - knows a lot of latest news - doesn't give in in things immediately - is social - knows a lot of strategies (I understand that it depends from men to men and also that there will be cultural differences but I'ld like to have an expanded list so I can find things to work at b/c I feel like I'm not complete / doing things wrong)
  15. Belgian girl
    thanks again for sharing your thoughts. So maybe just do kissin with that friend would be the best choise, at least it makes me forget my ex. the more. I know it's not good to be cynical about love, but why ? And it's like he already is.
  16. Belgian girl
    thanks for the two reactions, I keep it in mind.
  17. Belgian girl
    but I guess I would have a big chance to get broken by someone again (almost nothing is 'forever', and he's very handsome) maybe it would be just good at the other hand so it makes me less sensitive, what seems to scare boys off maybe it's like this: I just feel good when I could give love to someone/make someone feel good, so this would be a way to feel good myself as well and the most important thing for me for the next half year is that I finish my exams so I could stay at the university. Guess that if I will be able to give in in something like this, the other person will give me something back, I think attention and at least physical contact. I can't stand it very well to stay alone for so long. And maybe I can hold it separated, love feelings and this.
  18. Belgian girl
    thanks for reacting again what does red flag mean ?
  19. Belgian girl
    please read this topic
  20. Belgian girl
    aw I feel so sorry for you and thankful for warning me, now I would think at least twice about it! So maybe the best I only purpose him to continue kissing etc but no real sexuality
  21. Belgian girl
    thank you all very much. but I think I'm a very sensitive and maybe also romantical person. I do have feelings for the boy I'm doubting to do this with but I thought there would be a chance he will feel love for me as well (even if it's a small chance I probably would be able to..), I also feel quiete lonely at the moment and don't think I will find someone (except him) within several months who wants something serious and that I want it as well. I also prefer to have my first time with someone who's virgin and he is. I feel very attracted to him. And I'm about to change my point of views about for ex. sexuality. Before I always thought to wait until the right person. But until a year ago I was together with someone I really loved for nine months, without having sex, although we really wanted it. Almost nobody here seems to think so difficult about having sex, so why should I any longer?! I mean, it only breaks myself I guess. Even if I find someone where I think about that it's the right person then he would have done that 90%sure also before with other people and 90%sure he wouldn't mind if I have done that as well. So maybe the better to take this 'chance'.
  22. Belgian girl
    Could anyone tell their opinion or the disadvantage(s) of having only a sexual/physical relationship with someone? (for background information see my previous topic, in attraction and flirting ('which kind of relation would be the best'). Thank you.
  23. Belgian girl
    would it be a very stupid decision to give him the possibility to continue kissing each other (perhaps having a sexrelation after that)? Or could anyone for ex. say the disadvantage(s) of that? Or would it be a bad decision to start flirting with one of those two friends?
  24. Belgian girl
    but maybe the question to have sex was b/c of the drank or b/c he doesn't want a relationship b/c of the disadvantages thnx for warning me and to take the effort to read this long text.
  25. Belgian girl
    it's not for sure he's disappointed of that, it's just one of his friends thoughts about what's possible.
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