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  1. robowarrior
    *hugs* don't feel ignored , we are here to listen to you =)
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    Keep your paw stiff and don't pay the fine. Say that you will not let yourself be penalized by something that you didn't do. If they are going to give you a hard time, tell them that YOU are the one who called security, because your other roommates where drunk and brought a minor in the room, while both of you where studying. Tell them that its THEIR fault for allowing alcohol usage to be allowed in the dorms, that its a ticking time bom that due their policy something like this was bound to going to happen. Even if that gets you thrown out, whatever happens don't give in.
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    *congratulates you* lol
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    Its normal, ejaculating is a reflex and its genetically determined how fast it happens.
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    Stress from daily life is often emitted on others. Tell her to go away and not speak to you any more. Refuse to talk to her, say that you don't want her anywhere near you anymore. If she goes to you, you walk away. Continue to file complaints. Better yet, secretly record her horrible behaviour on audio tape. If you let a manager hear those tapings and all those accusations which you consider as hurtfull (really hurtfull comments are neccesary to convince) that way you at least have evidence of the bullying. You DO have a valid reason, bullying can even lead to people killing themselves, you deserve better treatment.
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    hmmmm, think you jumped too soon of a cliff here. First suggest to him that he should see a counceller if he has emotional problems, if he refuses to get help,then you've had enough of it and step out of his life. That way you can at least say that you gave it a chance.
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    All with all it comes down with ' too late ' Marriage is a lifetime commitment, if you have time left you could still study tho,.
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    ok well here's my idea When she opens her computer just have the background changed with the message you want to tell her. Its going to surprise her to say the least, do it with a wonderfull picture and it should be fun =) yeah probably not what you had in mind, but only inexpensive thing i could think of other then sending an airplane in the sky drawing 'i love you' with smoke in the air =) lol
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    The problem is you , not her. You are demanding things while you should love her UNCONDITIONALLY. Ask yourself the question. Am i in a relationship with her so i can make her life miserable? Is she with you,so you can make her life hell on earth? OF COURSE NOT!!! Couples are supposed to make eachother HAPPY. ONLY bring LOVE and LIGHT into the lives of those who you love. One day she will step out of your life, and then you come to the conclusion that you don't know what you got till its gone. Your just driving her away out of your life. Do NOT give another spin to that wheel of hatred, arguments are like poison and even small ones can lead to BIG break ups. Do you like arguments? Great but not with her, go play Call of Duty 2 to shoot away your anger, or go to one of the many discussion boards on the internet and argue your head off to people who like to argue back, however your gf is the Joker, which is the card you cannot mess with. All the other cards are playable. Be there for her happyness, not for her misery.
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    Well lets put it like this, its going to be war once she finds out that you been reading her diary.But since its over anyway, just say i read your diary and the parts on how you cheated on me , then when she starts a frenzy say ' we have nothing more to discuss and throw the phone on the hook.
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    If you consider yourself like a farmer, a farmer can only have so much load of hay on his fork ,before it becomes to heavy and the farmer will fall. I think that your pay-load is waaaay to much, more then you can handle at all. You are having so many courses at the same time. 3 people would be needed to get them all done, along with the job that you have. Because there are loads everywhere you cannot properly start-finish one thing, without having another subject suffer , meaning you can't get the job done at any front and the general picture as a whole starts to deteriorate. If you are a beautifull woman, people want your beauty , people look on the surface, and not at the soul that lies behind the face. That way they'll never get to know you. So finding a person who understands you without getting distracted by the face is hard to find. So what you have to focus on now, ist your inner self. Balance is the keyword for your life, and not putting up a load on yourself that is more then you can handle. Instead of going to shrinks that fall in love with you, i suggest that you start balancing yourself. Try Yoga and spirituality, although it might sound crazy, your life is a mess and you need to find yourself back, and bring normality and sanity back in your life. Strive to be 'normal' instead of 'perfect' That way you will stay under your limits, yep you might not reach that uber perfect picture, but its time you put up your middle finger towards society and all those who expect you to be superwoman. Work for yourself at your own pace instead. I think its terrible all these demands that you imposed on yourself, release yourself from the unneccesary chains, and only do those things in life that are neccesary to keep you alive. You do what you can do. And when you are unstable a relationship is the LAST thing you want. It doesn't work that way. Having your future arranged first, bringing stability in your life, and having everything worked out, and once you completed that, then you may think about commencing a relationship with someone you love. -stability -balance -not overloading yourself -normal expectations instead of rediculous ones. -Yoga and spirituality -meditation The meaning of life is to love and help others, its what brings happyness in your life. Try this and come back here often to vent your feelings, we'll help you thru this.
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    I would be his support but don't expect anything, because im not sure on wether he has feelings for you at all.
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    Because you don't want to give up your single life and freedom.
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    It all boils down to that you are friends with benefits, and not lovers. Isn't it obvious that you can't get out of him what you want? So stop continueing beating a dead horse, just say adios and find a new guy in your life who DOES have time for you, who doesn't neglect or constantly tries to avoid you. Money indeed doesn't fill the empty hole in your heart. So stop self torturing yourself, this surely cannot be the life that you want for yourself. You tried , it failed , move on. Its an important lesson that you can love someone, but you can't hold them prisoner or force them to spend time with you. You deserve better then this...
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    I think its rediculous that she is making you suffer, its not your fault that her mother died right? And for all you know it might take whole her life to get over it. Life is too short to wait, so don't wait for her, move on and date other girls. She can't blame you for that, since she is the one who pushed you out of her life. Tnx but no tnx, you have to continue with your life. So don't dwell on her, pack your bags and move on to the best possible future imaginable.
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    By not going into a relationship expecting it to work out just because it concerns you.And knowing that a woman can pack her bags and leave anyday, makes you more or less prepared if a situation like this occurs, moreover that she has moved to someone else means that you aren't her nr.1 in life, you deserve to be nr.1 in the life of your partner, or in other words she isn't even worth wasting your time on.
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    The question what you should ask is not wether its good or bad to tell. The question should be, what are you bringing into this kids life? Disfuctionality, or growth. Bringing drug dealers/users/alcoholics into your life is a pathway to disfunctionality and will do the kid in question NO good at all. As said before you are not the one who should arrange this, so DROP IT. Its neither your problem nor your bussiness, nor your position nor do you have the right whatsoever to meddle yourself in this situation. So just keep quiet like the rest does, once the mother think its a good moment to tell, they will tell. End of story.
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    I would try to exclude his friends as much as possible (whenever they call) you have to remind him something in the sense of ' you can't we have to goto (this or that) remember. Try to prevent that the focus goes towards his friends, and bring it back where it belongs, namely to you.
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    Nothing seems to be wrong, he's just 'totally unaware of how to satisfy you. This is because you fail to communicate to him on what YOU want, this because you think he understands your subtle intentions, reality is that no guy on this planet understands a girls subtle intentions, so in other words, if you want something from a guy you will have to ask it in his face 'directly' otherwhise he won't have a clue on what you want. Make your intentions clear,and you'll get a clear anwer more or less on where you stand in the relationship.
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    Well quite frankly you don't deserve her and you should step out of her life. Its important that you take these lessons into your next relationship and don't maltreat a girl ever again. Ask yourself the question are couples supposed to make eachothers lives miserable? Of course not, they are supposed to bring love and light into eachothers lives on a continues basis. Personally i think you had your chance with her, and should find yourself a new girl, because at this moment you aren't allowed to interfere between her and her new bf's relationship.
  21. robowarrior
    Good to see you showed some spine and didn't look back. However i advice not to make your heart a murder hole, just spit out all the issues you have in here, and we'll help you out. sorry that you've been going thru such a hard time breaking up.
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    Arranged marriages are stupid because they rob you from your God given freedom of free will to decide for yourself who you want to be with. If anything you should make a rally of thousands of girls and make a protest march against this state of rediculousness as there are many more like you who don't agree with it, but your voice will never be heard if you don't stand up against it. However if you aren't strong enough to stand up against it, i say leave your family, and flee to a freedom loving country in Europe or America, you will find a lot more support with womans groups(you have to find them) in Western Countries then old fashionate religiously misguided backward going countries like Pakistan, you don't have to follow these silly traditions. Its no different then a cow that's being brought unvoluntarily to its slaughter. Flee while you can.
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    link removed Reading this near death experience has made think of never comitting suicide , the cost of sin in the afterlife is just as big as in this life. And seeing how the pain is unimaginable more horrible if you take your own life, this because you have to live your entire life with all the misery you experienced AGAIN up till the point that you comitted suicide and push thru that difficult moment until you succeed. It would mean you would have to live another additional 34 years on this earth, i highly advice to save yourself wasting more then 68 years , the time that a reincarnation can take place can take over 200 to 300 years, so that would be 368 years , along with the fact that you have to make up to all your loved ones, you hurt so many people, its all and all so not worth it. You can't skip any steps in life, you have to go thru all of them, and throwing the towel in the ring is the worst thing you can do.
  24. robowarrior
    You know you are a person who values the truth. But humans don't work that way. People want to hear what they want to hear, that's the truth. The reality is that its not about the truth in this case either, but what situation is best for the child. You see, you should ask yourself the question 'what good will come from it if this active drug addict comes into this child life?' The answer = 0. That's why he and the whole lot of his addicted family should stay out of his life. Once he is 21 years old, he can decide to see his dad, but for now he's far too volunerable to the bad habits and world of addiction, its also a bad example. Would you like to get to know that your dad is a drug user? Hell no, especially children who have a more ideal view of the world, its nasty if that ideal view gets crushed down by telling the truth. Its not your place either to decide, his mom should decide for it, so just play along for the time being for the sake of the welfare of this childs education and upbringing.
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    Just ask him flat out if this changes anything for him. You already have no and you might get yes so you got nothing to lose. 2 things however ldr's don't work, unless the people involved decide to get together permanently. Second, don't commence a relationship if you do not have time to invest in it.
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