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purple, you've got to do something. you'll drive yourself insane - never knowing. and it sounds like this girl is just as confused as you are.

I think your friend may have a crush on you, I've been thorugh somethng similar. But the thing is she may be waiting for you to make the moves, and won't make any of her own becauses shes scared, which is logical. But the problem is, this tension between you two is tearing you both apart. I think you need to tell her how you feel, otherwise you'll never know what you actually meant to her. It'll drive you insane..I know lol. She may also be fustrated by you aswell, because you havn't told her , she says she thinks she knows why upset correct? It seems like you guys had a really good friendship, and I don't think a guy should get in the way of that. Even if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings atleast you could try and savage your friendship. Is it really worth keeping your friend in the dark and pretending like everythigns fine? You'll be lucky if you stay friends with all these agruments! You should just lay it all out and tell her how you feel. Either that or stay away until you're over her. you could continue being the friend and getting hurt or distance yourself. But I really think this girl might feel something for you. Those things you described were more then bestfriendy type things, expecially if she did the same actions with her "boyfriend". feel free to PM anytime, I kinda went though the same thing.

I find it way easier to talk to I guy I don't like. I'm kinda shy, and I constantly keep thinking about what i'm saying, and what that guy thinks about me if I like him. So thats probably why, they get all nervous. Just make the first move and start talking to them more, and they'll warm up to you

hey, i read the first couple pages..and i'm sorry if someone has already mentioned this but... As for the smell take a bath every month or so. And it gets rid of the smell. Taking a shower won't clean you out. You have all those ridges, and curves up there and the water doesn't get up.. but taking a bath it will! hope this helps

I posted awhile back, see if you can find my post. Basically, all the signs were there...and she started it. lol I was completely 100% straight before, then I notice this girl is acting like she has a crush on me. Yet shes completely straight, and only talks about guys. Things went on, and we became best friends. The flirting got really intense, laying on me, touching me, sleeping really close together...like on top of eachother lol, and talking dirty. And then I finally told her I liked her..i couldn't deal with it anymore. And to my surpise (i wasn't going insane!!!) she told me she like me back. A week went by, and she started saying things like "I don't like you like that.." etc. So now its like does she like me or does she not? So i asked her about it, and she said "it feels wrong. its not right. your a girl, and i'm a girl. i can't.... lets just not...say no okay?" after that i got really upset, and started telling her to forget everything I said because I dind't mean i was just confused (which might be the case..) but i only said it to make her feel better, and make myself feel like i wasn't rejected..i guess. and now things are tottally weird between us., And i miss the flirting and how close we could be. It was special. Even if we both didn't have feelings for eachother, its nice to have someone to cuddle with, you know? and yeah. so things are * * * * atm. its only been 3 months or so. I really miss what we used to have.

mehhhh... I messed up bad. Shes really paranoid. And she is making sure I don't tell anyone about what happened. But nothing really happened? Aside from her doing everything,and touching me and laying with eachother. No kissing.. I think thats because it would be our firsts...and it would defiantly make it clear that she does have a crush on a GIRL. You know? But I'm really trying not to like her, w/e. I'm not going to see her for a couple of weeks (i'm going on vacation) I get really jealous and mad when she talks about guys she likes, and what she wants to do with them..lol. Its like right? okay. I'm not sure how I feel though, I told her to forget everything I said and that I was really confused. Thats pretty much the truth, but it was more so I could get over her, and so things wouldn't be weird. I'm not sure at all what I want, or if I really do like her. I knew she liked me for some time, the signs were obvious and i kind of 'played along' never really liking her. But then I started to like her back...and then when she finally told me she liked me (after I told her) it was like YAY. And now thats over, and so is like all the fun stuff we used to do because I was honest and told her. Then she flipped out... So i'm really not sure what to do here

woah. thats pretty intense lol. She doens't really walk aroudn naked, but she does change infront of me, but thats pretty normal for friends to do anyway. I hate when people play with feeligns too..urggh. Its kind of bittersweet, like dang they're hot when they do it or whatever but they never follow through. Like a tease I guess. she makes sure i never tell anyone about what we 'do' which is like nothing, because shes scared... its just so confusing. I've decided to do nothng about it.

Okay wow. I could honestly never tell you i'd expect to see myself here 2 years ago. But I guess things change. I'm 15 years old. Anyway, I met this girl, and she was really cool, and really nice. Like extremly nice. From the moment i met her, i kind of thought she had a thing for me. I guess I could feel it. So a couple months went by, and well. I started to have a little crush on her. And now were bestfriends, and have been for like 2 years. Were really close and everything, and I tell her EVERYTHING. But theres always akwardness because theres some underlying...underlyingness? And yeah. The alst couple months of school she got really really flirty. And starting saying dirty things to me, and then touching me. And..I liked it? But it was always kind of in a kidding way. So just before exams started we were talking about who we would make out with of the same sex. And I said her. and she said me. So one thing led to another, and i told her i liked her. And to my surpise she told me she liked me too. But she made it clear that she was not gay or bi or anything. But she had a crush on me. She also said "if you call me back tomorrow and tell me that this was all a joke adn you were kidding, I'm never going to talk to you again." I knew she was sincere, and all the signs pointed to yes. But what does she do 2 days later? "I don't like you like that...etc" So that left me completely confused. This girl just contradicted everything she said to me. Jump to a few days later. WE were at her house with one other friend. She made the same remark "I don't like you like that." when I got really quiet and upset (not wanting to make a scene, bc of other friend.) she asked me what was wrong. Then my friend left to go to the bathroom. So she comes and sits really close to me and was like "whats wrong...oh you know i'm just kidding" and starts touching me lol. But then, the next day she says the same thing. Its like her actions tottaly contradict everything she says. So I talked to her about it and she said: "well I do like you..but after I thought about it. And its just wrong. Your a girl, and i'm a girl. And I'm not gay. Your my bestfriend, and i don't want to ruin that...blah blah blah." And yeah I get that. But it took alot of courage to tell her all that stuff. And i feel really used. And it really hard not to see her, or talk to her because were BESTFRIENDS. And who would I talk to about this kind of stuff? my bestfriend. So theres a big delima. She constantly talks about the guys she likes and her first kiss and it drives me soo insane. I know i'm jealous. and its like shut up? I never really liked a girll.. My old bestfriend was bisexual/and lesbian. But I was always chasing boys. And now I'm really really confused. I mean I want a girl? but i do still like guys. But theres more excitment in a girl I guess? I know how i feel...mostly. And I want to get over my bestfriend. So basically. Help?

I think maybe she thought you were desparate for trying to talk to her, and when you kept asking her to hang out? Thats kind of messed though, I'd just give it a couple days or whatever, if she really wanted to talk to you, and you tried too, then she probably would have made more of an effort to get together.

*edit solved, thanks. XD

well it sounds like you asked her out a little to fast, she had JUST gotten out of a relationship. By the looks of it she said shes happy to chill with you and be friends. So only friends. She wants to give this boyfriend of hers another chance...good luck lol.