azul
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I would like to know how is your marriage now. Why are you behaving in that way, what are you missing in your marriage that make you be a cheater?
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Go to therapist it will help you a lot. Talking to someone who can help you understand why you are feeling like that. I was like you, because my brother from my father side tried to touch me when i was a teenager. it is sad when the people that you love are the one who gave you the wrong example. how could you trust somebody else.
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Tha's what my husband told me about his lover, then i asked him, if it no was so good, why you went to see her the next day after having sex with me. This was the part that really hurt me from his affair, it looks to me like if he was faking with me. his affair last two months, and five sex with her as far as i know.
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I cry like crazy after reading this post, I would like my husband to read it, after his affair he realize that I'm the love of his life, that he can't live with out me, he is lcky that I'm still here after all the agony that his affair brougth to me.
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I would like to know why men or women keep having sex with their wives/husband while having an affair. Do you think is fear to do this?
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thanks for your words it really touch me, yes i'm trying to forgive, it is hard, but he is helping me a lot with his love and cominment.
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He said yes, he got teste, nothing happened, i tested too, I ask because i have a friend who was marry for five years, after husband having affair, they both got HERPES. I think is importand for everyone who is in involved in extra relationship to take care of.
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After reading diff. post from everyone, I reallyze that nobody talk about protected sex. I would like to ask to the men. Are you having protecting sex during an affair, because if a woman goes with you to have sex right away you should be concern about it.
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Well, I had been marry for almost 15 years with the only men that I had sex and second kiss. I was in love with him since his infidelity. I was feeling the same as you with him, always wishing to make love to him and kiss him all the time, always happy when he got home and doing things to make him feel the only man in my world. Never cheat on him, and missed him a lot went I was away. I did not imagine my life with out him. See, you are no the only one. Now I feel different toward him after his infidelity, the kiss is no the same, sex is no the same, I think it will take time in order to me to understand if I really want to be him after his affair. How can you love someone and hurt her/him in that way.
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You are right, but I'm curious because when the affair ended I asked him how he was felling about it. He said that hi just put at the side and keep going forward, that means to me that he had some kind of feeling for her, I don't want to ask him the same Q. now because he does not like to talk about it whit me. We are doing ok, he es very lovely and romantic with me now, since that day he does not go out alone is iether with me or one of our chilldren, he is making a lot of effort to make me feel secure and trust again. I/m the problem here I don't feel the same anymore, it is hard for me to be lovely with him and passioned, I feel if I'm what I use to be him, he would change. Yes we took conseling for four weeks, and now I'm taking thereapist with a Psychology one a week. He looks really sorry, but the thoughts about the other woman with him are always in my mind, after knowing that she used to kiss him a lot and had a very good sex with him. It looks that they had a really good time together and this of course kills me. Do you think that he may remenber her or think about her, I think he does, how could you forget those spicy moments so fast.
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How men feel after ending the affair, I mean the feelings for the other woman, no for the wife. Does he miss the time that they spent together?
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Why is so easy for men to go to sleep with a woman that they just met or sees three or four times, before take her to bed, without knowing who she is, her life ect.
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Yes, finally I just reallyze after five months of suffering and depression, that it was sex what my husband was looking for. If you want a very good advise, please talk with your wife, you don't have any idea how my life had been after this, it is really painful to know that the men that you love is with someone else. I don't think that you would like to put your wife thruoght this. It will be so painfull for her as well for you. Talk to her, go out together, kiss her, buy flower, say lovely words, maybe she is tire from all the work that motherhood brings. Take a bath together, help her in the house, put the kid to sleep early and talk to her. Good luck!
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Well, this happened five months ago. Yes, we went to couple therapist for four weeks, and now I'm seeing a psychologist alone, because It is hard for me to forget the issue. Now he is the men that I always wanted, always home with us, no friends anymore, since that day, he looks very sorry, now he said I'm his happiness and the love of his live. He said it was the first time that he cheated on me, and believe me, before i did not see any sign of it. We were having some issues, when i was angry at him, i just let him sleep by himself for weeks, what a big mistake that I did. This woman gave him what i was not given to him.
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No, she sent a text messenger in his cellular it said "I miss you, I'm bringing down two songs for us to listen to it and drink". after that I went to his emails account and chat with her, pretending I was him, she told me everthing about them, for how long they were together, how many times had sex ect.
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What really hurt me from all my husband affair was, that he had sex with me one night and said that he loves me, and the next day had sex with her. of course there were some issues in our marriage, but now we are doing ok.
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no, I'm spanish.
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sorry, my english is no so good, yes, this it is the Q
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Why is so easy for you guys to leave the other woman after been catched from their wives?
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As far as i know he stop the relationship with her as soon AS I found out. today he is very sorry, and this was the hardest time of my life, I never cried and suffer as much as I did with this issue. He said it was the first time that he did it, i don't believe it. now he is really niece with me and after that day he is other men, let see for how long.
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My husband as all of you know, had an affair, I asked him how it feel to be with de other woman, he said it is just differnt. It look like they had a great sex together, otherways he won't go to see her every satuday and had sex with her as far as I know five times. It really hurt, this situation really kill me.
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This is a Q for men who had cheated to their wives, what do you feel when having sex with the two women, one night one, and the next day the other one. I would like to know, because my husband did it to me.
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well, now he is the husband that I wanted, since that day he is no longer seen his friend anymore, now he is home with us, he cares about me, about how I feel. Before the affair we were having some problems because he was always out, especially on Saturday since we got married, he was always hanging out with his friends and men relaties. I always complained aboutet and I ended up sleeping in the sofa for two sometimes three weeks. He never asked me why I did not sleep with him on our bed, I was the one who forget about it and return to our bed like nothing happened. I tried to talk with him about how I was felling, he was coming home early but the next week he stay late with his friend again. The last time that I was separeted from him in the house was for one month. We did not talk that much, he did no care about. He said it is the first time he cheated on me, I don't believe it. But now he is a angel, I don't know for how long, I don't know who he is anymore. We have sex and I feel if I'm with a stranger men. He is really comitted to us now and very sorry. He has been in pain as well as I'm now and before. The problem is that I don't feel the same, I don't know If I should stay or leave him. I forgot to say tha many of his close friend and me ralatives are cheater men.
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He went out normally every Saturday since I came to US, to fix his car and hang out with his men relaties. Our sex life was good as far as I know and he told me that. The women is seven years older than him. As far as I know because he told me they had sex five times. They were together for two months. I would like to know if he would be with her today if I did not find out about it. He told me that he only saw her one other week, but he gave her almost all his information, cellular phone, email, office phone ect. We took four seccion with a couple therapist it really worket out. Now I'm seeing a psycHologist because after five months I still think about it and talk with him about too. I always ask him how he could do that to me. He says he love me, but I don't understand how he was with me making love and said that he loves me and the next day had sex with her. This is tha part of the affair that really hurt me most.
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Well, we were having some problem, my problem was that when I was angry at him, I went to sleep to the sofa for two and sometimes three weeks. I was angry at him because he was always with his friends, especially on Saturdays. He always told me that we should look for some couple therapist. I told him that it was ok with me, but the only problem that had with him was that he was not spending enough time with us, we have two children, one is three and the other ones is 13. When he was with the OW we were having sex three times per week as usually. He never change, he just make few mistakes but I was so naive that I did not see anything.