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  1. CluelessGuy321
    You live around Southern California?
  2. CluelessGuy321
    *pets your head* d'aww
  3. CluelessGuy321
    *pets your head*. 60% of what you posted happened to me. Except for the sleeping around and relationship parts. And the jerk friends part. I have a pretty keen jerk-radar. Edit: Oh and to answer your question, I can sense that you have very low self-esteem and that you may lose social energy quickly and it's just that you need to put in a lot of energy to keep up friendships if you want them to continue. There is a difference between being associates and acctual friends. Acctual friends takes a while to build up. And you have to hang out and meet a lot. If you're just meeting people here and there and maybe hang out a few times, yeah, that's just meeting people. Not really making friends.
  4. CluelessGuy321
    Yeah I would agree to that. She really should just make up her mind? Maybe she is just looking for a fling before she commits herself? Arranged marriages and what not. Very bad situation to be the 'other guy' in.
  5. CluelessGuy321
    I don't know about shower and wall mold, but I have been eating cheese with mold on it for the past few days. Blue Stilton from England and Gorgonzola from Italy. I feel fine.
  6. CluelessGuy321
    That's horrible and it's not right. If anything, it's public defamation of character and could be sueable. You need to confront your manager and speak to him/her with a stern voice.
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    oh. oh yeah. you need your space. You need your own friends and hobbies and she needs her own friends and hobbies.
  8. CluelessGuy321
    Hmm. See a good therapist. There has to be a reason. I can always name a reason why I fall out of attraction with someone. Usually it's physical. Have you let yourself go since marriage? Maybe you should start working out.
  9. CluelessGuy321
    Don't be fooled. You're being played like a violin. READ THIS: link removed Text Book example of being played. You need to go meet other girls and have a fun time and always be positive and upbeat.
  10. CluelessGuy321
    yeah, I've had this happen to some friends. She probably kept you around until she found someone new. She sounds like a jerk. Just stop communicating with her. If any friends of hers comes to pass a message to you, tell them you don't want to hear it and for them never to mention her again.
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    d'aww. I remember when I was 19. You're still a baby. Say, post a pic of yourself. I'm sure you're not as bad as you think you are. And as for being sociable, that comes with experience. But there are some good books out there that can help you. 2 that I would recommend are "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie (VERY popular book) and "Intimate Connections" by Dr. David Burns. Also, I went through something similar @ 19. You need to see a good therapist who will help you sort out all the stuff in your head. Might even be a good idea to go on a drug like lexapro for a while. My mom did some crappy things to me too during that time in my life (like talking about my problems to just about everyone). I think my parents' have always had good intentions, but always gave piss poor advice and weren't the best role models. It'll take time to sort it all out...
  12. CluelessGuy321
    Are you from Southern California? If so, let's go out sometime I'm 25/m/Irvine.
  13. CluelessGuy321
    I like you
  14. CluelessGuy321
    I started walking around shirtless around the house around 15. When my mom would say something about it, I just drummed on my stomach. It was kinda embarrassing when I first did it, but not anymore. You see it enough or your parents see it enough, you get used to it - no matter how you look
  15. CluelessGuy321
    My mom and dad are both nurses. They each make about 101k and 103k US dollars respectively. They work for the county of Los Angeles.
  16. CluelessGuy321
    Try management. We don't know anything
  17. CluelessGuy321
    woohoo, I passed the finish line xD
  18. CluelessGuy321
    continue NC and go meet new people
  19. CluelessGuy321
    T______T Why can't I find girls like you?! Whyyyy T_________T
  20. CluelessGuy321
    Come play poker.
  21. CluelessGuy321
    Stop cracking. You're being played like a violin. Watch Jerry Springer. It happens a lot
  22. CluelessGuy321
    You only worked 3 days. Just find another position and tell everyone else never to go there.
  23. CluelessGuy321
    ahahahaha welcome to the working world xD What is your field?
  24. CluelessGuy321
    Hmm. I'm glad I don't have this problem. My parents cook pretty good. Not much of the American food you eat though. A lot of it is Thai food. Pad Thai, Rat Na, Seafood Soup, Coconut Milk curries with either chicken or salmon. But usually, I make my own food.
  25. CluelessGuy321
    My therapist told me the same thing. When I was 23, I met this girl who was flaming hot. So cute to me that I simply ruled her out as "Out of my League" - so I had the easiest time speaking with her and getting to know her without really expecting anything out of it. My therapist asked "Why didn't you ask her out?" My response? "She's out of my league." Therapists response? "WHAT LEAGUE?!"
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