murman

i honestly don't think that shyness is the problem she is pretty outgoing

I actually did ask her on a date and she blew me off but later apologized.

hey everyone! I have a problem with this girl. I really like her a lot, I don't really want to like her and I try not to think about her but it just seems she just keeps occupying my every thought. I met this girl at a party about 2 months ago and got her number and for about two weeks we talked on the phone but almost everytime she would say "do you want me to call you" and i would say yes, then of course she didnt call me. This happened like 3 or 4 times. Then I didn't see her for a while and I stopped calling her. About a week later I saw her at a party and she was really excited to see me, I mean she just came up to me and we flirted for like an hour, and i think she wanted me to pull the moves but it was hard for me because i really like her and didnt want to ruin my chance. My brain tells me to just forget about her but I think I have to do something because she occupies my every thought, how the hell do I pursue a girl like this? should I just wait till i see her at another party or should I just ask her out? should i just forget about her? I can't tell how I should go about pursuing this girl! please help

hey everyone! I have a problem with this girl. I really like her a lot, I don't really want to like her and I try not to think about her but it just seems she just keeps occupying my every thought. I met this girl at a party about 2 months ago and got her number and for about two weeks we talked on the phone but almost everytime she would say "do you want me to call you" and i would say yes, then of course she didnt call me. This happened like 3 or 4 times. Then I didn't see her for a while and I stopped calling her. About a week later I saw her at a party and she was really excited to see me, I mean she just came up to me and we flirted for like an hour, and i think she wanted me to pull the moves but it was hard for me because i really like her and didnt want to ruin my chance. My brain tells me to just forget about her but I think I have to do something because she occupies my every thought, how the hell do I pursue a girl like this? should I just wait till i see her at another party or should I just ask her out? should i just forget about her?

well your first problem is you sound like you have no self confidence. Girls love men with confidence. people without confidence appear to women as weak and boring. I suggest that you stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it!!! develop a strategy on how you are going to meet the woman of your dreams, and believe me you will fail a million times before you succed. I didnt meet any women about 2 years ago, then i decided i wanted to so i started exercising a lot and achieving a lot and developed self confidence. you have to do that because if you just keep feeling sorry for yourself and you dont change then your situation won't change either. so make that decision to change and to show your friends that you can get better looking girls than they can even if it takes you years to do it and it probably will