unmenomore
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yea I know. I've tried some of those things but no luck. I will just keep trying. Thanks for all the advice!
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HAHA yes you guys are right... the constant reminders are very stressful and I find myself on myspace all day... not healthy! Basically I don't meet many guys, so that's why I obsess over the ones I meet and like. I dont like every guy I meet, but I tend to get really attached to those I do like...How do some women have dates ALL the time? where do they meet these guys?
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yes that is the ideal situation. I just dont know were to meet any. Any tips?
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thanks to all. Please keep any more advice coming. I think you are all right and I'm not sure this is something I will be able to deal with. But the thing is, isn't this what all guys do on myspace or in real life? I'm not sure how to deal with the thought of a guy I'm seeing, also dating other women.
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Yes I have a feeling this is it. I know its no big deal but the problem is I am getting attached. I am hoping to be just friends, and that is what i have been trying to do. But in getting to know him i start to like him so i begin to wonder, should I "fight" for his attention and be among the many women he is talking to, or do i try to be just his friend... Well i guess I should also let him make more of a move on me right? if he is interested?
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Yes I know. I think cheating is the wrong word. I know its cool to have a few people to flirt with but he just has ALOT... I guess he's just very popular. I know its ok to flirt online. I just dont know how to go about it. We did meet before. But I thought we would continue getting to know each other. Know it seems to have stopped. How do i keep getting to know him with so many other girls craving for his attention. Should I "compete" for his attention? or should I move on?
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Hi, I met a really cute guy on myspace. I really like him or at least am infatuated wtih him. He has like hundreds of female friends on his page. He is single. He told me he is dating and talking to other people. I appreciate his honesty, But this bothers me. I can't deal with the thought of him talking to other girls online. Lately he doesnt call me anymore and I'm pretty sure he's talking to another girl online. I know alot of girls flirt with him because hes really cute and I dont think he is a "player" as he is just talking to girls online and he IS single. But do you think its a red flag that he has so many female friends and flirts with ALL of them? or is this normal, ok behavior?
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There is this guy I really like. He knows because I told him, but for whatever reason he is not really paying me much attention. He is always nice, but It seems like he is not putting any effort. None the less I still really like him and I like flirting with him. I'm not sure if I keep flirting with him if this will make him like me. Sometimes he says things like he might like me. Anyway, now that he knows how i feel about him, should I ask him to be my valentine? I was thinking he probably expects me to say happy valentines or something. Part of me doesn't want to so this way he can wonder about me and also to see if he asks me to be his valentine. But do you think he is expecting it of me? Should I say happy valentines day, or be my valentine? I am in my mid 20's so this might be immature? If i ask someone to be my valentine do i need to take them out?
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Hello. happy holidays to all. I wanted to know how many of you in the age range of 20-30 have slept with the person you have been seeing before you became boyfriend and girlfriend? (Did you have intercourse? or just oral, etc?) and how long were you dating before you did this? and how long after you had sex did they ask you to be boyfriend and girlfirend? Also, please state your sex and that of your significant other and did you ask them to be bf/gf or did they ask you? and how? Thanks for your participation.
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He's not over his ex but i want to be with him
unmenomore replied to unmenomore's topic in Relationship Advice
Thanks to all. its just so difficult to move on when you really care for the person. I am always the one to move one when it doesnt work out and when the guy isn't doing his part. which is all of the time in my case. Sometimes I wonder if i have to "fight" a little harder to get what I want? That's why I am reluctant to let go. I'm just very frustrated and upset. -
He's not over his ex but i want to be with him
unmenomore replied to unmenomore's topic in Relationship Advice
I guess I should've specified. its not just his ex. Its his first "love" type of thing. Person he will never forget type of thing...so its a little complicated. -
I felt this way a while back. I also prayed to God and he did answer me. However, the guy I thought was sent from God, turns out to be someone who is not recipricating the feelings i have. In other words, they don't seem to want to pursue anything with me. I just feel tired of the daily routine also, and I don't want to go from person to person trying to find love. I wish it would work out with this guy.
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Hello, The guy I am currently seeing i sense is not over his ex. We are just friends but i feel his feelings from the past don't allow him to move on. What can i do to make him focus more on the present and see if anything can develop with me? I know it has been done before by many women. What is the secret?
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I hope we can communicate more and to the last post, i agree that since we haven't really formed a real relationship i shouldnt have any expecatations. hopefully next time i see him we will define our relationship more so that i can know what to expect from him.
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well, we do message fairly often, but its very short. But he did tell me he was busy with work. Which I know is true for a fact. so i know hes not lying about being busy.