bentandbroken

Hey nikkers! First off I do "not" think it was wrong for you to do that, If you are curious well then your curious and if he definatly has nothing to hide it shouldent be a problem. Actually a few of my buddies and their bfs trade passwords so they can be trustworthy to each other. Infact I secretly signed onto my ex's account and found emails that were recent saying he misses his ex and I was nothing compared to his ex and he was hoping to meet her again soon and I was still dating him I say its better to play it safe and check his stuff rather then risk getting your heartbroken and being played as a dummy *thumbs up*

Thanks registered, I have discussed the silences with him and he just has a quick reply like "oh well maybe tomorrow we'll have something to talk about" that is the part that frusterates me, it seems like he just doesnt even want to talk...and yes it is annoying but that is why I leave. I dont want to feel as if im forcing him to talk with me or anything like that lol. and he is 18 years old. thanks for yours and muns help

I am probably one of the youngest on here Im 16 *lol* Also he lives in Canada I live in United States. I hope he is everything I expected him to be hes a very nice guy hes definatly not controlling, he looks out for my feelings, his mother and I get along well so hopefully everything turns out ok. Its just losing him will send me in deep depression Im already feeling depression when we hardly talk sometimes like sometimes on those days where we have little to talk about where we have those long awkward silences then we notice the convo isent going anywhere and we kinda just leave with a quick I love you. I dont know what it is, I've had plenty of guys but only this guy I react differently with (good differently) atleast I think... *lol* Thanks very much Mun for your help though I appreciate it. It was something I needed to hear.

btw "Nearly Kills Me" is a figure of speech haha I just seen that

I have somebody thats like that he lives in Canada and I live in the US. I met him through a friend as well If you guys both like each other and you talk for a long time all the time then somethings bound to have a good outcome. Meeting him in christmas may seem like a long time but it gives you time to see if you really want to meet this guy. I think its a chance you should go for as long as you trust him enough and know that hes not some crazy guy then Im shure it will all work out. ~Best of luck to you~

I hope this doesnt come off stupid sounding but I've been seeing this guy online for about 4 or 5 months. I really really like him we call each other on the phone and talk for almost 9 or 10 hours through out the day on messaging systems. We plan to meet pretty soon around this summer, but im soooo confused I really am attached to him but we just want to take things slow (we both agreed). He says he really likes me and if we can actually make it then I could make his life perfect. He also says that he doesnt show emotions well which I can tell because sometimes it feels like he just doesnt care although he swears he does. Anyways getting to the point *lol* I really really like him and everytime I get upset and we quit talking it kills me to be mad at him. I feel like I have just broken up with him and I always want to say sorry even for things that arent my fault. I have never felt that way with anyone else, any other time I get mad at someone I just shrug it off but sometimes this guy nearly kills me when I get upset and we dont talk....does this mean im actually in love or is this useless and I should quit before it gets any further? please help