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  1. To the very least, I hope it makes you feel better that you are never alone I also suspect my father of doing something but he's so old it's laughable..then again it still hurts. Like most people have said, talk to your dad not your mum. It is true what people say about turning things into a triangle. I'm not syaing all the time, but from experience it can make situations worse. You say he treats you like a friend. Does this mean 1. trusts you, confides in you etc etc? or 2. chats to you casually and likes to joke around? These are two different things. If it is hard to talk to your father (about serious and awkward stuff) then I know how you feel. But sometimes you have to put yourself in a surreal and confronting position. I rarely talk about anything with my parents, our relationships don't include much personal communication, but once I had to gather all my courage to confront them about something I strongly felt about. Also, you won't be spending your whole life with this man. One day you'll be married and move out etc etc. You know you love your mother to death. You would do anything for her. Sometimes I'd sit and think physical pain on me is nothing compared to the hurt my mum is/would be feeling. Talk to your dad and tell us how it goes (})(})(})(}) In the meantime keep your head up high, surround yourself with positive people and watch a lot of comedy Cathy~
  2. LOL yahhh I dont think guys mind. He will be happy and wanna show u off to the whole world He should be proud
  3. Wow 6 years since u 2 been tlaking and he says he loves u all of a sudden? That sounds impulsive and hrmm..rushed kinda thing. I take it you dont feel the same way as him ~~ but u wanna be friends and everything right? With me, I would confront him and talk to him about it, make each other understand and explain that you just wanna be friends and that means a lot to you. His reaction is natural since he feels so strongly about you and has probably felt ashamed or embarrassed. But dont let the communication slip away Cathy~
  4. hehhe i was too lazy to read all the replies but to repeat ShySoul, yeah as long as shes in a relationship with some1 else and they are committed and all involved then u seriously cant do anything about it nomatter what, nomatter how harsh it sounds...thats how it works Cathy~
  5. heheheh who is Thoreau? neway....ShySoul what u said is right, nomatter how lovey dovey or wishful it sounds. I believe that every1 is attractive in their own way or attractive to some1 atleast! C'mon u see very ugly pple gettin married, thereforeeee some1 must love them! By the way, depends on what "ugly" means to u....but u know wat i mean .... and beauty is only skin deep...blame the media blame 2day for all the image crap and everything. LOL neway i will get sidetracked hehehe.....in the end every1 is human Cathy~
  6. heheh yeahh youre still young m8 dont sound too desper8 cos soem girls will be put off but its understandable especially if you have girl/guy friends around who all have some1 special and stuff..but youre doing the right thing...confidence and self-esteem! You can do it !!! It's like everyhting else~ 4get about being shy and do smthng even if its silly..maybe some1 will notice you Dont give up and dont sound like its the only thing in life Cathy ~
  7. hehehe there's no harm in going for it these happen all the time.....go with the flow and see how it goes
  8. That's true....love takes time, love takes effort .........but its all worth it ~
  9. a friend of a friend of a friend ........
  10. Exercising is good...keeps ur stress levels low..even tho i never stick to that.....seek help str8 away cos depression will not suddenly simply go away by just going out and having fun. This will make things easier and better though but at this moment remember that u r not alone and the only way is up from here
  11. Ahhhhhh tempting isn't it? And don't blame urself nomatter how evil it sounds....Sometimes I feel friendships are better than nething else..... Personally, I would leave it as it is for now and let time tell...go with the flow and let things calm and settle down 1st. Bcos jumping in will be a bit too obvious but in the meantime down put urself down
  12. Hey, I came back again to read over the replies and yeah I realise its a self-esteem issue as well...and omg metro girl that helped a lot. You have to love yourself and enjoy yourself, dont tortue yourself cos youre still very young....hrmm then again Im nearly 20 and my friends are all talking bout marriage and things already and to me thats really young still hehehe...but yeah.... Hokaizzzzz I also wanted to write again that omgg from what you wrote, Rock Chick, that you sound soooo much like me. When I was reading things above it felt like I was writing it word 4 word..... I too cry over these stuff and I always think about being sooo jealous and everything...however, I hide it and dont show it...I guess only my girl friends know about it...arghhh. Like you, I went onto my bf's girl friend's space and snooped around and found stuff like you. But this is such a long story I dont think I can finish now and it aches so much heheh.... And then I think again....why am I torturing myself..... You gotta be strong and stay strong....if things were meant to be things will happen nomatter what and nomatter how selfish it sounds but you yourself are the most important person in your life *Sigh...and then again I think evilness grrrr and then I think themover and over and over .... it's like being obssessed ... i guess it is Cathy ~
  13. Hi Rock Chick I'm new here dunno how this works but here it goes... Ahhhhh im EXACTLY like u ! I came here lookin 4 likeminded pple. I also get extremely jealous cos my boyfriend talks 2 other girls and stuff as well but hes like ur guy i guess like loves me heaps and hates it when im upset and does everything he can...weve been 2gether for 4 months now. Every1 else above has given really really comforting and good advice and i seriously dunno wat else to add in but i can say that u r not alone and that omgg i feeeeel so much the same...one thing though is that i havent confronted him about my jealousy.....so im one step behind heheh but i look up 2 u for havin confronted him on that and i wish i cud do the same...eventuallly *sigh...i relaly hope everything goes well....let us know how things go...cu! Cathy
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