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  1. I could argue the colloquial use, but let's settle on xenophobia instead. To the op, do you want xenophobia to run the rest of your life just to please your parents? Doing so may make them happy, but it doesn't mean you will be.
  2. My mistake, but op clearly indicates Pakastani Muslim man, therefore racism.
  3. It's discrimination based on the color of his skin, it's racism. As a minority myself married to another minority I've had to deal with this racism first hand. How can you be sure she'll have a more promising future with a Muslim guy? No one can say and insisting on it is a little racist too.
  4. You're old enough to make your own decisions and live with the consequences. If you try to please them both by lying, you will lose them both. You'll need to decide if racism is something you want to control the rest of your life just to make your parents happy.
  5. Porn is not your issue. Porn is completely natural, particularly for young men. I can honestly tell you that asking for two weeks of no porn is asking a lot. I have a beautiful wife, but men are biologically wired to seek out other women and porn can be used as an outlet without cheating, like romance novels for women. Your issue is his sexting, talking and pics with other women. That is actual cheating. If he was perfect otherwise, but only enjoyed porn, I'd say that's something that can be overcome together, but cheating is cheating. Is he still doing this? Also, an escort site in hi
  6. Thanks for all the advice guys, sadly my wife and I just found out that she had a miscarriage at week 12 of the pregnancy. We're currently dealing with our loss.
  7. I'll try to find some time to sit down and discuss my feelings with her, but with her being pregnant I'm not sure if I should be putting the kid gloves on or not.
  8. I'm no sure if this applies, but in some oriental cultures after getting married the wife is just expected to stay home and be a housewife.
  9. I'd love to slow down, but we've been living with my parents since we bought the home, and I really need some privacy back! I work with my parents and our work life is hurting because of our living situation. With our new home, slowing down at work really isn't an option either. No morning sickness at all yet just sleepy a lot. I bought a respirator with organic vapour and particle filters if she wants to help out renovating. Her brother and sister were a big help when we moved in, but she wants to keep the pregnancy a secret from them for now just in case something happens. Don't get
  10. My wife and I have been together for 5 years, lived together for 3 years and married one year. I'm 31 and she is 29. We bought a house a month and a half ago that needed extensive renovations before moving in. I hired contractors to do some of the work in the home, but our budget is tight so we decided to do most of the work ourselves. One week in to renovations and we found out my wife was pregnant. I've taken it upon myself to do all the majority of the work and I'm exhausted after two months of moving and renovating. My wife's workplace has also been very busy and she has been working l
  11. You should probably talk to him and tell him you don't like it. It he persists than you have a problem. I also think it's perfectly normal for a partner to express who they think is attractive.
  12. When I was still a virgin and I told the girls I was dating that I wanted to love them before we had sex they were always in disbelief too.
  13. I got one a few years ago before the first time I had sex. It does feel pretty close to the real thing, especially with a condom. In some respects it's better since you can get them warmer and are ready to go any time. Cleaning them can be a real pain though. Using your hand is much faster and gets the job done. I only used mine a handful of times before they were thrown out. However, after having been with a real woman the "experience" doesn't compare at all. It simulates one part of the experience well, that's it. The contrast would be like closing your eyes, plugging your nose and eating
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