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  1. renaissancewoman101
    At least he paid you back. My ex still owes me about $1600 and the last time I talked to him, he promised to pay me back. Still hasn't and I've given up on chasing him down for it.
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    That's true. A good mattress is worth the money, esp since you're going to be sleeping on it for at least 4-6 hours a night.
  3. renaissancewoman101
    Men who spit.
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    I take it the bed is still at his place and he doesnt want to give it up to you. If you really want the bed so badly, talk to him to see if he can give you the bed, if you cough up half the money spent on the bed. Personally, I think he might be doing this (keeping the bed) to spite you. I dunno.
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    Can't the vet give the cat some painkillers or something to take away the pain? I agree with the others, you should take the cat to another vet to get a second opinion. Most times, the vet will give you choices besides just letting the cat die.
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    I agree with Orlander, she may just be trying to relive those places with you so as to disassociate them with her ex. I've done that. My ex and I were very much into Ren faires and last year, I took a friend to a local Ren Faire that I had been to with my ex before. I did that so that I could disassociate hanging out at Ren Faires with my ex.
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    Don't they have after hours "urgent care" type clinics you can go to, to have your foot seen. It sounds like it would be painful to wait for a few days.
  8. renaissancewoman101
    - go shopping. - go on a trip. - hang on ENA. - go out with friends.
  9. renaissancewoman101
    noxious loud farts. My ex was famous for noxious farting.
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    I'll keep at it. I just get frustrated and keep venting on here like a broken record. I am going to try to study this afternoon instead of working with the third graders. I have a midterm on Wed which I have to study for. It's a combination of a lot of things. Yeah, by next year I will have a MAT degree, which will be great. I do have a good friend out here which makes life ok, but I wish I had a SO. That's part of what is also bothering me. At least on Wed after my midterm, I have water aerobics and that is always a workout.
  11. renaissancewoman101
    A semester last about 4 months. I started this semester in middle of Jan, semester ends middle of May. Fall semester starts at the end of August and runs through middle of Dec. Right now I more want a SO than anything else.
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    I have one more semester after this. I've been working on this degree since before I moved out here. I should have finished it when I was living in Wisconsin.
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    I feel like quitting school. I don't like the third graders and I just don't see where school is taking me anymore. Yeah, having a MAT degree would be great. I have one more semester left, but I have been doing this for so long, that it just feels like one thing after another. Just got done with class today. Same old, same old. Nobody seems to like to want to work in projects with me. People here already have their own cliques and friends that they had when they first started the program. I transferred into the program last Fall and still feel like an outsider. I also wish I had someone in my life right now, someone who could make me feel secure with myself. I feel alone. I do have a few friends, one of whom is very dear to me, but friends don't always cut it. I want someone to share time with, to do things with, to be with. I just want to NOT feel so alone. I feel so alone when I go out for walks by the beach, out on the town, etc. Just dowdy old me, puttering around, watching life go by.
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    Rabican, I think you are being a bit cold and unfeeling here. Regardless of the situation, these two people once had a relationship. Albeit, the relationship is done and over with, but still these people once cared for each other, and when one of them is going through something AS traumatic as a sibling committing suicide, I can see where compassion should be there. If I had a SO and an ex of his came to him for help and consolation because her sibling had committed suicide and my SO told me that he wanted to be there for her, I actually would think well of the SO, since it shows that he has compassion and a kind heart.
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    Can you just drop the class? Dropping the class might be better than getting an "F" in it.
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    Isisastara, I don't know how you can do that, be so peaceful minded and thinking towards the ex, especially if he dumped you for someone else. Don't you ever wish them the pain they caused you, or else wish their new relationship wouldnt work out so they would come back to you? I would think that most people when they are hurt badly, that is what would be going through their minds. How do you manage to get to that point that you wish them well and WANT good for them, esp if they kicked you face first to the ground and stomped all over your heart?
  17. renaissancewoman101
    Are you on any type of birth control?
  18. renaissancewoman101
    I wouldn't say C is the only one worth staying in. I've been involved in situations where the love was one sided, where I liked a guy much more than he liked me. We were friends and at the end, the friendship was MUCH more worth it then trying to fit a square peg into a round hole of a relationship. Sometimes the best things in life require sacrifice.
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    If you try to stay friends with her after the breakup, that's up to you. She may take is as a sign that you are still interested in her and try to get back together with you. If you don't want that, then DONT stay friends with her. Give her some space to get over you, and then try to work on being friends. After the breakup, see how the both of you are faring, then make a decision.
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    After you come back from your trip, find a time to be with her alone and sit her down and tell her that you don't think the relationship is working out and give her the reasons why. You have to be strong and stay strong while telling her this. No backing down if and when she does cry, beg, etc. She'll probably be very sad and upset about this and will probably beg and cry to ask why and whatnot. YOU CANT BACK DOWN.
  21. renaissancewoman101
    I'd wait. Why ruin her holiday with this news? Then you'll make it uncomfortable for HER, YOU and your friends, and the trip could get cancelled, which would be unfortuanate.
  22. renaissancewoman101
    I would wait till after the trip so there is no major fireworks on the trip that could cause pain and problems for you, her, OR your friends.
  23. renaissancewoman101
    What are Listerine pocket packs? Are they those "filmy" things you put in your mouth?
  24. renaissancewoman101
    Yeah I know. Most of my life, my mom has put me down for the way I look, what I do, how tiny I am, that now when people tell me that I look great and I am such a nice person and that I am attractive, I look at them with this look of disbelief, and wonder what THEY are after from me, since I dont believe a word they say. I have a hard time believing that I am really good and nice and beautiful since mom doesnt think I am. I understand how you feel.
  25. renaissancewoman101
    That's GROSS if people don't brush their teeth in the morning. Dont you have that icky morning breath and that icky film on your teeth that you just want to GET RID OF. I dont think i could ever go without brushing my teeth in the morning, because of the ICK factor and because I would be too self-conscious that I had bad breath. People are strange.
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