AuthenticSelf

Just curious, when do you think she is going to break up with her boyfriend?

So you want him to get a job even if it’s not what he exactly wants but he’s not going to take a job less than the money he wants to make. I think having a full time job is not the only option available. He can start a business, selling things. As long as he is able to do what he loves. Why is it important for you that he get a job even if it’s not what he exactly wants?

Too be honest, I don't see any point to have the conversation going. It is like she is making you to put up some topics or suggest something. I would say if she has something like "how have you been?" or something along the line of "how are you?" or "what are you up to?", at least we can see some effort. If this is WhatsApp, give a thumb up reaction on the message so she knew you read it and just let it go. I would not even type anything back. If she wants to talk to you, she will send the second message asking for something to continue the conversation. Otherwise, everything is quite.

After Friday, do you think you guy are going to start dating each other?

Where are you in relation to the best case?

Girls has boyfriend talk to other girl is very common. I don't know why we think it is a big issue.

Just because she has a boyfriend does not mean she cannot talk to other people. I know a girl who still talk to so many guy even though she was married. She is beautiful so if a guy does not know her relationship status, he even thought she was interested.

Just curious, what result are you looking for in this situation?

So the issue is one of you want kids and the other does not want kid, is that the problem here?

What happen if you stop trying connecting outside work? Is he only talk to you when you guy are both at work? Is he jealous when you talk to other guy at work?

I would say this is the right move. People want what they cannot have. What I see is he had you under control before so he took you for granted. Once you decide to keep distance, he realized he lost you. The pain of losing you is higher than pleasure of having another girl. So, I am curious, if you guy come together as a couple, what do you see yourself in 5 years?

I agree with this. It is more about how you know when you meet that understanding manager. I once had an understanding manager but at first, it seems like he was not "understanding" me at all. People show their understanding differently as well. So, just to check, how do you know when you meet that understanding manager?

Look, everything happens for a reason. I remember getting rejected for a job I have always wanted. Then, I need to start everything from square one. New career choice, everything is new. I had doubt just like you. Now, I realized the rejection was right. I got a new job. And the cool thing is my friend did the job which I got rejected for. I started my job with a much higher salary and less work. He got more experience working than me because I had to start over. In your case, let's look at the positive. What did you learn from this?

Since I don't know much about your life and stuff so saying anything negative about him is not a good idea. To be honest, you married to him so there was something good about him as well. So, just to clarify, what result are you looking for in this case?

In my city, the trend slowly turned toward speed dating and some weird type of dating events as people are sick of the dating app. To be honest, it is fairly similar to dating app with the real life situation. I can tell 90% true if a person is going to have a partner or not purely based on their look. So, technology has changed everything in my opinion.