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  1. sk8er_gal
    hi, I'm a bisexual female, and I have been having trouble with my stepdad. He doesnt accept me, he tells me to my face that lesbians and gays etc are trippers and that they disguist him. It makes me so sad, and depressed, it makes me feel as if im not worth anything and that Im a mistake. That i should be "normal". But i do not think this way normally.. its like he brain washes me, like he makes my self esteem just disappear. I know being bi is normal.. but when he says things like this 2 hurt me it changes the way i feel about myself. can u please help me. what should I do..
  2. sk8er_gal
    ive been in the same sito. and what i did was: wrote my friend who was also a girl an email explaining myself and explainging that i liked her more tha friends, and i also said if u feel the same then tell me but if not i can move on and just be friends with you but i just have to know. It worked out pretty good, she took it well and even though she didnt feel the same (my bad luck) she accepted it and now we're better friends for it than before and i have moved on. But in ur case thinsg may be different she may like you and even better - u will move forward and become more!!! either way is a good outcome, depending on the person of course and if she doesnt accept u liking her and telling her then shes not someone you would want in ur life anyway goodluck
  3. sk8er_gal
    what is a trisexual?? does anyone know.
  4. sk8er_gal
    Hey, it sounds like she's confused about what she wants. She mighthave lied about kissing other guys becouse she didnt want u to know aka didnt want to loose you, she may still like you but is just being a free girl and had sum fun. It doesnt change how she may feel about you.. it doesnt matter if she got with 100 guys, maybe u should talk 2 her about your relationship when ur on the holiday alone. goodluck..
  5. sk8er_gal
    I would do what the previous people told u to do for sure! those answers were sus about him not being able to work his scanner etc. and maybe he has photos of his son or grandson etc and is just using them all. its so easy to lie online, i could pretend to be mariyln monroe if i wanted and just use heaps of her pictures if u get my drift. Its so easy to say i love u online and feel love for sumone online.. but reality check since when do we love someone in just a short time? without even meeting or kissing feeling the chemistry.. but its alrite to hae a bit of fun just be careful.
  6. sk8er_gal
    What are some original romantic ideas for a first date? like where should i take my (girl) date and what can we do etc and when should i make a move to kiss?
  7. sk8er_gal
    hey! firstly is she bi or les.. im persuming ur a girl>>? cause ur in the bi les gay section.
  8. sk8er_gal
    I reckon you should say sorry, if you miss him you obviously like him more than u think.. maybe buy him a gift and make up for v-day.. take him 2 sum place where u can both be alone with candles or sumthing nice. It kinda sounds like you need to accept yourself. coming out really isnt bad at all and afterwards you feel relieved and like you can be yourself. I am a lesbian so i came out wen i was 16.. but i know when ur not ready ur not ready fullstop. so noone can pressure u.. its up to you. goodluck
  9. sk8er_gal
    tell her how you feel in a letter, and do it fast. If she's leaving then this is your last chance. Maybe you could start with asking for her fone number or email address.. say it is for a friend if your really too shy. if shes not interested the worst that can happen is she'll be flattered and she would prbably think "how sweet of him". I'm a girl so i know how we girls think hehe.
  10. sk8er_gal
    hey. maybe you should keep away from this person and when people are around act nice and just keep to yourself this way the person can't hurt you by copying interests or compete with you. Who needs friends like this.. people will understand if you dont want to talk to the person or associate with them.. becouse not all people can get along.. i dont get along with my stepdad - he is often jeolous of me, and does things and says things to hurt me (not physically) but mentally.. becouse he cant handle that i mite become better than him or live a better life than him. I ignore him completely and when he snarls and says put downs or nasty remarks when were alone or watever i just pretend i didnt hear him and he isnt there.. i think it hurts them back and it helps with blocking them out of ur life.. u deserve to be happy just like anyone else does. noone needs nastiness. hope this made sense to ur sito...
  11. sk8er_gal
    there's this girl i have been talking to for about 2 weeks now, i like her romantically and she says i'm hot and said in a text msg that she likes me as well. I sent her a vday card and she text msgd me back saying how gorgeous it was and how we will deff do sumthing soon. the problem is one of her friends said she still sees her ex.. like "messes" around with him still and they went to the movies 2gether 2day. The girl i like said friday she was busy working all weekend but then she said yesterday that she went surfing etc on sunday all day.. my question is does it sound like she would be open to a relationship with me? or is she still hung on her ex.. and why would she lie about working.???
  12. sk8er_gal
    hey. i feel the same way, i go out with girls and when it comes 2 guys id rather kiss and hug them but nothing more.. I consider myself bisexual, i dont need to really "find" myself its just me. i know alot of girls who are bi and prefer girls over guys. labels shouldnt really be used and they don't have a distinct meaning. well thats what i believe. hope i helped.
  13. sk8er_gal
    What she did is kinda illegal in most states, talk to her and tell her you aren't ready to take on such a big responsibility. This is very serious and will only get worse .. you should talk to a trusted teacher or doctor/counsellor about this.
  14. sk8er_gal
    Hey. I'm seeing this girl and i am kinda shy, when we are together i cant think of what to talk about or say. She's loud and outspoken and i am usual like that as well, but i'm shy when it comes to first meeting someone and dating etc, can you please help me?? i just got dumped becouse i didnt talk much at the start of a relationship and i dont want it 2 happen again.
  15. sk8er_gal
    You could try flirting with her, and see what she does, or get drunk and kiss her or get close 2 her and if it turns bad just blame the alcohol haha, but seriously just go for it i told my bestfriend i liked her and nothing has changed.. she knows and we still do everything 2gether.. but she doesnt like me back so now i know and can move on. It will depend on ur friend on how she takes it.
  16. sk8er_gal
    Hey, I am firstly a girl, and this other girl likes me and I am beginning to like her back, the only problem is that she is 13 and i am 18, she is mature for her age and I can talk to her like I would someone my age.. like i have never thought omg, what is she on about or how immature of her 2 say that.. like i would with a normal 13 - 14 year old. I was wondering if there is a legal thing about me going out with her becouse shes underage even though we are both girls? and if we hide this relationship.. and went out anyway - is it wrong for me to be going out with a 13 year old? when i'm 18.. ??
  17. sk8er_gal
    hey.. im writing to you becouse i am 18 and i found out that a 13 year old girls likes me.. this means its a 5 year age gap.. she is mature for her age and doesnt look 13, she looks and acts 16-she drinks and smokes and isnt like normal 13 yr old girls who stay at home reading with their mums lol.. if u get me. i was just wondering if i were 2 get with her would this be wrong?
  18. sk8er_gal
    I am bi, and i like my bestfriend whom is a girl but im not completely sure she likes me back, she has told me after i said i luv u do u love me on a fone msg if she loved anyone it would be me and 2day she said 2 me out of the blue 2day on chat: do u wanna go on a date 2morow night, 2 the movies. and i said yeah.. then she said serious? and then she told me the times.. but later on she said her other friend wants 2 go as well on saturday do u want 2 go to that?.. now im confused.. i dont know whether she was just saying "date" in a joking way.. and thought we were just going as friends or she was serious.. she might have been scared and changed her mind.. can you pls help me. what does it seem like? what should i do.
  19. sk8er_gal
    hey.. firstly you need to accept yourself, dont listen to anyone elses small minded comments about being unnormal. not everyone is Straight either, just look at the marti gra for example 1000's of people are just like you! there are so many tv shows on now of gay people society is learning 2 accept, it may be slow but its better than it was say 30 or so years ago. i have a homophobic stepfather and i am bisexual and im a girl.. he always judges me and puts down other gay men and women around me but i lift my head up high push the tears away and think i am better than you for i can accept.. not only myself but everyone around me. hmm im only 18 yrs old so i dont kno much.. but i know that you are normal! and to find yourself and accept who u are. nothing is wrong with ur mind at all.
  20. sk8er_gal
    hey. I am bi and i like my bestfriend who is also a girl and i suspect she likes me as well. I have told her twice that I like her and asked if she felt the same and she said that she has strong feelings towards me and on another occasion i messged her when i was drunk and asked if she loved me and she said you know if i love anyone its you. (normally she doesnt express herself at all) meaning she has an image of being non emotional. she said to me after i told her the first time i liked her that shes not ready, and shes scared of girls atm, This was about 3 months ago.. but we always flirt and she is always getting close 2 me when we are alone and I just get a vibe from her that shes interested. My question is should I make a move? wait until she cracks onto me? or what? its hard to distingush whether her actions are just one of a bestfriend or more. please help.
  21. sk8er_gal
    I am bisexual, and i like this girl.. can you please tell me the signs to tell if she likes me back... we are friends, and i often think she does like me, but i dont want 2 ask and make things awkward betwwen us if its not true.. what should I do? are there ways i can tell, without her knowing.. ??? please reply..
  22. sk8er_gal
    I have a friend, i dont know whether she is bi or lesbian yet.. but it feels like she has something for me, i like her heaps and cant stop thinking about her... id almost say It was love.. but i know its a crush.. heh. we have only became close in the last few months.. but have seen each other in school since year 7. shes always playing around with me and we always pay each other out, but we are joking.. i was going away for a week and she said 2 message her everyday.. can you please help me and tell me the signs, if she likes me etc??? what should i do without being confrontational..
  23. sk8er_gal
    can you please tell me the signs girls give off when she likes you?
  24. sk8er_gal
    Hi Im bisexual and id really apreciate some advice. I like this girl and Im not sure if she likes me, We are friends, but we've only became friends recently.. Im going away for a week and wont be at school and she said to me will u message me everyday and when the bell went she hugged me twice and none of my other friends really cared.. except her.. she always says I love you and she hardly knows me - like i love all my friends but i dont say it that much to them.. maybe shes just a loving person. another sign she is sending is she always play fights with me, and pays me out like pretend fight.. like the sort you do with the guy you have a crush on. or girl... she always wants 2 read my mobile and when i dont let her she gets a bit cut and says jokingly..why do u keep secrets from me? im not openly bi and either is she (i dont even know if she is).. but can u pls tell me if it looks like she likes me? or the signs i should look out for?
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