Recently my girlfriend wanted to take me to a pub she stopped going to because of drama with her ex called Joe. She said she was more confident to go again and see her friends since I joined her life. I felt happy I was able to make her able to rejoin her social circle when she asked me to come so I was very excited. I heard somebody in our group say the name, Joe. When going up to order food I calmly asked if that was her ex and she said no, also later stating it wasn't when going home. A month or two later I found it it was. She said she hid it from me so I could enjoy being at the pub without any drama. Although the way I took this was that she didn't respect me enough to tell the truth or for some unknown motive purposely aimed to hide the truth.
A month after this whilst camping she was putting up a story on Snapchat and when doing so her best friends list was seen. It consisted of me first, her friend second, and some random guy fourth. I asked why I have never heard of someone she obviously has contact with when we are both open about who we are in touch with. Her first reason was that it was never brought up in conversation, this then changed to him being a good friend and she didn't want to lose him. The reason she thought she would lose him is because of the way they communicate, many of the memes he sent to her were sexually related and very graphic I didn't see many she sent but it seemed she hadn't sent anything too bad. I asked if the Snapchat messages were weird but could not see them as chats were set to auto-delete (apparently him who did)
The night we argued about him I found out that before our relationship they both flirted with each other, anyways apparently that night she went on to rant to this guy about me getting angry at her for hiding him after she told me she left him on read. I didn't find out until the next day when she said she did talk to him again. So what should I do? What should I think?
