jimboi

yep, definitely slept with more than one guy oh god i hope he is, i think about him day and night... i want to be with him, but he is so good looking i dont wanna get hurt maybe thats got something to do with it........(i really dont feel good enough for him)

when i first started having sex with guys i never even considered women, i only ever had one girlfriend(none sexual) when i was like 13 then when i was 17 there was one girl i really liked i dont know now if she offered herself i would take her up on the offer but i do think about her from time to time when i see mutual friends. at the moment i'm 99% sure i'm gay but its all i've ever known, when i'm driving or around town it is always a guy that turns my head not a girl i couldnt imagine sleeping with a girl... its worrying me i cant stay aroused with a guy(and believe me this guy from last night is model quality) and if i were to sleep with a girl i would feel horrible, like i was using her for my own experiment...

Oh help i so dont know what to do over a guy. I recently started chatting to a guy on the net as friends(not on a dating site) and we met for the first time last night, we've been chatting since October. I enjoyed myself and over the last few weeks he's been the first and last thing i've thought about as i wake up and go to sleep, we can chat on the phone for hours and spend all day chatting on the net. now to back fill the storey a little: I have only ever considered one women/girl in the past(about 4yrs ago) . however the last few times i have had sex with a guy(including last nite) at the start i have been really "aroused" but halfway through thats it he goes very limp and thats it... no more fun for jimboi.. now i am really getting concerned that i am not gay anymore?? but then theres this guy who because of jobs we've both chosen cant live near each other who i hate being apart from... but and nows the big one last nite, i did say i enjoyed myself and i could of just spent all nite listening to him i didnt feel any "tingle" when we touched?? is the tingle lust and what i'm experiencing love? i really dont know, i've never been one for relationships and always kept my distance, maybe its because i'm afraid of getting hurt? oh i dont know... any advice would be greatly received... A confused Jimboi....

I HAVE!!, i was 238lbs in april 2003! i'm now 158lb's (80lbs!!!!!) yes i've fluctuated 7lbs or so if i've gone off the rails for a couple of months but nothing major and apart from models/sports stars, who hasnt increased/decreased by that amount during stressful/busy/xmas times? i'm staying positive about MY weight, you should too, your weight is ur business. At the end of the day a diet is about the individual what works for them and what motivation they use, for me it was a job i've always wanted and the atkins diet for you it maybe health reasons and slim fast....(whatever) there is not a wrong or right diet... if we were all the same then life would be very boring i've mixed and matched my diets to suit my lifestyle, i am now on a healty eating diet/weight watchers and i've kept the weight off, its a slower rate but suits me at the moment, i will go back to the atkins diet at some point because i'm fed up already of being starving! something the atkins diet never makes me. but now you've said that, your on. i will be back in 12 months, and if your still here i will provide fotographic proof i've kept the weight off(and lost more!!), i'll prove you once and for all your wrong, just like i've shocked and proved everyone else wrong that said i couldnt do it. i dont lose.....

well heres me b4 and after B4 image removed After image removed

well i've done absolutely crap, hit a plateu big style, cant do anything to get below 160lbs, but on the plus side i have lost a lot of inch's and look a lot slimmer

sexuality is part of you like the colour of your eyes Religion is a choice.... you choose to be buddist/christian/muslim.... etc... Go figure which one comes 2nd for me!

best bit about being gay!!! mens changing rooms

well not on target exactly, but the date for interview has been set back to october 21st. so i wanna be 147lbs by 21st october currently 162lbs! 15lbs to go in 4 weeks (eeek)

ur boyf sounds like a friend of mine, very similar situations although we have had lots of drunken rants about it. i am not 100% convinced he is straight either. i think previous posters are right in saying keep an eye on him but forcing the issue wont do anything, it'll just make him more secretive, if theres one thing i rememeber about being in the closet is he wont come out till he finds the key himself, and someone dragging him out wont work. just put the issue to one side till u get the facts or he tells u something. but i wouldnt rush into marriage just yet.......

cos he's online on other websites but showing as offline on msn to me. since i wrote this initally i've tried to ignore him and put him out my life, but i cant, i'm normally so detached, to the extent of being labelled a heartless bastard (think brian out of queer as folk) thats me. never wanted love b4, but i think about him every day, i think how cool it would be to see him out shopping or something, i dont know if it was love, but i enjoyed just chatting to him, we could chat for hours over everything and nothing, and that is what i miss about him, the chats..... just re read my initial post, forgot to mention, we did actually meet in real life once, we carried on txting each other and then nothing, so it wasnt like he didnt like what he saw....(i hope)

hmmm, i've given up trying to understand other guys a long time ago and i am a guy!

workin so far 169.3lb's - lower than the target i set myself for this morning so not too bad, just gotta keep it up

a few weeks ago this cute guy msg'd me online and we hit it of right away, we didnt shut up for hours, although he works awkward shifts we still chatted like mad every day, we sent like 400 text messages in the first fortnight, so we met, i thought it went well he was really funny... blah blah blah.... we carried on chatting for a few more days then nothing he blocked me online, wouldnt rtn my txt's now i'm not a clingy person i wont jump in 2 bed/start a relationship with anyone(never wanted/had a boyf) i meet off the net in five secs. so this is really not like me. but i cant get ths guy outa my head and every few days i catch myself checking out his profile, i get butterflies when i see his pic and really miss chatting too him. what can i do?

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