So I have been together with my boyfriend for 10 years. I recently found out that he's cheated on me before he proposed to me and after we found out I was pregnant, I found a USB with photos and videos proving this and seen the dates they were made. I also seen that hes had an alternate facebook account with a different name where hes messaging other girls liking their photos and offering money for nude pictures, this account shows its been active for more than half our relationship. He asks for girls "onlyfans" and snapchats", im not allowed to half snap chat and I didnt even know he had one until i seen hes been doing this all behind my back. After we had 2 kids together hes still using this facebook account and wanting to hang out with other girls behind my back (According to these posts) im unsure how to tell him I know and was thinking.. "Do I have to tell him?". Im the only one working, paying all the bills on my own and he treats me like *** saying I never have time for the kids (If i didnt need to work id be home with my kids all the time) he has low patience, calls the kids names and does the bare minimum around the house, never cooks, barely cleans, doesnt do groceries, complains if he has to watch the kids or do dirty diapers. He alsways goes in the bathroom with his phone, or will be on his phone in the middle of the night, but when im on my phone looking for a recipe or something hes acting like im doing something wrong..? ive never cheating on him or ever gave him reason to believe otherwise. Ive never went through a break up especially now that we have kids. Has anyone else caught their spouse cheating and found out that its been going on for YEARS? how did you break it off?
and he'll say things like your the most beautiful person in the world, i don't want anyone else but you, (I keep my self fit and healthy, im active and activly groom myself) blah blah blah...why is he saying all this stuff if its not even true? if hes clearly looking or something else to keep him busy. im not good enough and my kids arent either.
