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  1. thanxs, i think i will. Thank you sapphos_goddess for all your help, i really appricate your time.
  2. its not rude, im 19 and he is 20 my parnets didnt know about him, if i go to the police then they'l never trust me and i'l get in heaps of trouble.
  3. Nothing like this has ever happened...well i mean it hasnt gone this far, my bf, well x now used to try and get in my pants but thats it. It wasnt bad as this.
  4. thanxs, im really scared though, when his brother called me he said 'i'l stab you if you dont get abck with him'
  5. I also forgot to mention, his parnets are invouled too, Like they want me to get back with him.
  6. hi everyone, I havent posted in a long time but im in a sticky situation. OK, my bf tried to have sex with me the other day, i mean like he pulled down my pants and tried enerting me from behind. He apologised and siad he went out of control. I broke up with him. He is really depressed and keeps calling me, i told him to leave me alone but he wont, he gets his lil brother to call and tell me that me n his brother belong together. Its annyoing me, I feel so disgusted at him, i hate him, i dont want to talk to him. what on earth do i do??
  7. aweesomeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee thanx 4 that
  8. pip!!! how do i do that???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
  9. Hi everyone I hope everyone is doing well. Well from one of my lasts posts, link removed I just wanted to say I spoke to him whoo hoo!! I played cards with him and his friend hehehehe... anyway getting to the story... I caught the same train to uni as him, and I kept catching him starting at me When I got of, he was standing near the exit and was waiting there, as I walked past he smiled and we started talking. HOWEVER conversation got boring, it was the uasal "hi how are you" and "the trains are nevver on time!" lol. We are still on the stranger level, but i wana get to know him badly, Ive never felt like this toward a 'stranger'!! hehe But i dont know if anything will happen (eventhough I want it to) because his reallllly hot and he acts like a real gentleman, I bet girls are all over him all the time, what makes me any different from them? its not like im anything special, I dont think he would be intrested in me. Is there a way to stand out? Well anyway, I really would like some advice on conversation starters and how to get to know him better and ways I can 'charm' him. I really hope you guys can help me, I really really want to go out with him hehehe Thanks guys, I appricate it heaps.
  10. I really appricate you writing back karvala, I want to be with him, but times like this, it makes me question myself if i really do want to be with him... What would happen if I spoke to him about it? How do you think he would react? Like did ur x confront you abut it...and if so how did you react to it? karvala, How do i do this? Im not sure what you mean when you said to reward him. Once again, thank you, i really appricate the reply.
  11. Im so depressed. Last nite I went out with my girls and I smsed my bf telling him so. I got home and messaged him telling him i got home ok. He calls me up in the morning and tells me how he feels, he basically said he was pissed off that I went out without him, he got jealous!! and on top of that he said that he believes that i am the one for him but he is so worried his going to lose me, he thinks that he loses everything wonderful in his life, eg his degree at uni, his friends etc and now his worried bout me. He also gets jealous really quickly I honeslty feel so sorry for him I like him but not as much as he loves me, I just got over my x, and its hard on me...espeacilly coz it was an abusive relationship. I feel like im under so much pressure, I have been so down lately, even going out with my friends didnt help me (it always cheers me up 2 be with my girls). How do I handel this??? What can I do to stop what im feeling, it hurts so much!!
  12. yes I agree with questionmark. Take things slow, theres no rush. Hang out with her more then tell her Good luck
  13. wow! Thats a memoerable story I had my first kiss when i was 15, with my first boyfriend. I was so embrassed because i had no idea what i was doing. We were at a park and just hanging out. I remembered he asked for my permission before kissing me, at that stage I thought it was real sweet of him hehe.
  14. latenitecarcrash, you should get out there and meet new people, if u give them a chance and let them see who you really are u will develop new friendships, im sure you dont scare people away!!! Maybe you should talk to some1 about the way you feel, someone you consider to be close like your parents or a relative or even on enotalone. Stay positve and dont give up on hopes and dreams
  15. Stay strong, you honeslty dont need guyz like that. Your 19, you dont need excess bagage on her head, go out and have fun, enjoy your life. You will meet someone who wont treat you like that and as Iceman26 said, someone on the same level. good luck!
  16. yehhh hehe, but how do i apporch him? do i walk up 2 him casually and introduce myself? it makes me sound desperate!
  17. hi guyz, lately i have noticed this guy at uni, His really cute and we always make eye contact and I have caught him out staring on a few occasions butt the thing is, i dont talk to him, I really want to make a move or something but i want him to make the first move. If he always stares and makes eye contact, wouldnt you think he would get the idea?? This guy is so hot, he hangs out with all the pretty girls. Im not saying im ugly or anything, im not that bad looking lol, its just i dont really make an effort at uni. What do i do??? Thanks
  18. Fantasy_

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    Thank you!, i joined up at my local gym and i feel much better, i honeslty dont really care bout him anymore Thanx again guyz!
  19. Hi everyone!! OK, this is just alittle question, and i would like your opinons and thoughts on it... What do you guys think about girls approching boys and why?....This question results from a long day of arguing with friends hehe, so I would like to get a bigger perspective on this issue. thank u for taking time out and contributing to this
  20. Fantasy_

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    umm but how do i achieve self-esteem...
  21. Fantasy_

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    Thank you, i understand I have low self-esteem and I lack in confidence...Im going to try and change for the better...no more naive me!! thank you again to everyone who took time out to help me with my problem ...i appricate it alot.
  22. Fantasy_

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    thank you so much I feel better ....
  23. Fantasy_

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    I'm so trapped, I have been hurt so many times. I feel like there will never be a guy who isnt a jerk for me. Thers notthing wrong with me, i work i go to university, Im also goodlooking....but also nieve, I let whom Im seeing go to far to quick. I found out my xboyfriend has been seeing someone, they met at uni and have been together for 2-3mnths. But he still wants to be my friend. It hurts allot, especilly coz he is the most decent guy i have met and been with, I dont have feelings for him, but i do miss him at times. I havent spoken to him for such a long time until today (roughly 3 months...but I still did think about him) I sit there and wonder if she is better than me, if she is doing things that I didnt do and if shes hotter then me...I stress myself so much. I want to get over this, I want to grow and change, I dont want to be me anymore...I dont want to be the nieve, innocent little girl who cant see when in 'love'. I honestly feel so much anger, I dont know what to do. I want to change so much, but I dont know how...I dont know how to get over him, how to meet the 'nice' guys...I dont even know how to meet guys, Im so shy... I know there is allot of diversity within this forum and I would like the opinons of you. Thank you for taking time out and reading this long post, I really appricate it. Thank you again. P.S DOES ANYONE HAVE ADVICE ON HOW TO MEET GUYZ TOO?
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