Me and my gf have a house together and been in a relationship for just over 3 years. She has struggled with mental issues in the past and can be hard to live with. Lately her moods have been worse than ever and she has been pushing me away and her “banter” has just become insults. She criticises everything and everyone and picks everyone up on everything whilst putting herself on a pedestal where she takes everything as an attack or insult. This has caused me to withdraw and we’ve both been either arguing or sitting in silence.
We split up 9 days with her saying we are too broken to carry on. I say we need to call an estate agent and get things moving she says she’ll do it in the week. She hasn’t. Then this last week she keeps making my supper every day and breakfast this last weekend. Did the weekly shop for both of us.
Then last Friday she booked a room for the trip we planned at the end of February. Why do that if we are not together.
Then Saturday evening still says we are not together. Then why did she book a room less than 24 hours before
I have no idea what’s occurring. Are we together? Not according to her. Then why book a hotel room for 3 weeks time?
Then on Sunday she said she was going to her parents for lunch next Thursday and did I want to come. Why invite your ex to your folks house?
she’s still made no movement on getting an estate agent in?
Any advice or thoughts welcomed
