I met this guy off Tinder back in November. We hit it off and have been seeing each other casually every few weeks. We have slept together. We have not talked about what we were looking for, which is probably a little immature, but I figured we were on the same page. I am looking for casual connections by the way, open to serious if it happens. His dating profile was always vague. It doesn’t list his interests or what he’s looking for. It’s only about two sentences long.
Last week I went over his house and we were talking and kids came up. He said first that he didn’t want kids and couldn’t imagine having them. I agreed. We had a long discussion on this topic. Yesterday I went back on Tinder and looked at his dating profile out of boredom. He just added to his profile that he is open to having kids now. I don’t know, I think it’s a little strange that someone could change their mind in one week about having kids and then add that specifically to their profile. If he is doing it to get more matches with women, that is a big red flag for me because that is manipulative. I’ve noticed that every time we hang out, he changes something on his profile soon after. Just wondering other people’s thoughts on this or if I am overthinking on this one.
