I went on two dates with a guy I met off a dating app. A lot in common, we both said we felt a connection. We ended up sleeping together on the second date. He was very affectionate afterwords and asked me to stay the night. Vague plans were made to meet up again this weekend the morning after. I texted him on Monday saying I’m going to be in his area on Saturday if he wants to see me again, and that I think I left some jewelry at his house. He said he would keep an eye out for it and that he would get back to me with plans. It’s been days with no communication. He also updated his dating app profile. So I texted him again today asking what was up, because I had to plan my weekend. It’s been 4 hours. No response.
I just feel horrible. I feel used and discarded. I know you usually shouldn’t sleep with someone on the second date, but I thought I finally met someone who liked me for me, and someone who I had a connection with. Also upset because I did accidentally leave some jewelry there that I can’t get back. It’s just so hard to believe how someone can be so nice to you, and then drop you completely.
I just don’t understand why men do this. If he didn’t want to see me again why didn’t he just say he was busy? What’s the point of stringing me along and then not even answer? Struggling to not take it personally.
