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Not caring about your age, or the age gap, comes with maturity. I'm not neccessarily saying you're immature, but the older you get, the less age will matter. Just make genuine comments about how close you feel to her, how much fun she is, how you love how well you two get along and so on. I suggest just being confindent and secure about who you are. That's what will make you attractive to her. She might have to think it over and face her own fears about what other's think, but keep pursuing the friendship and eventually, you'll win her heart.

I say, if you're confident about yourself AND your age, she'll feel more secure. If she laughs at the age difference, laugh with her. It'll lighten it up a bit. Guarenteed inside she feels nervous that you'll think she's too old for you! I'm 28 and I like a 19 year old...my biggest fear isn't that I think I'm too old for him...but that he'll think I'm too old for him...does that make sense? Good luck!

Well, you're not legal. Did you know that? And ok, I'm 28 and I met this incredibly mature guy...who I found out was 16! BUT...if it's true love and it's meant to be, we'll meet up again when he's 18. And that's that. Immaturity is giving into your feelings without using your head. Don't ruin your lives over the whole statutory rape issue ok?

Hey, it's all about his maturity level...and yours! If it's meant to be it should be. I'm interested a 'man' who just turned 19, and I'm 28! But he's very mature for his age. Yes, he's short on some life experiences but just count the costs (so to speak) and see if it's worth it. You'd both get crap for it from all directions, but if it's true love, then who cares what other's think! Just bodly say, "I love our age gap! Wouldn't have it any other way!"