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  1. Well we weren't hammered until the end (4 shots). Mostly couple of beers and a lot of food the first 5 hours or so. I think it's because we got to know each other that we bonded to the point of too much alcohol
  2. Well it was her idea, all three times. And it was fun, and I we did get to know each other. Of course, it's certainly not the best way to do so I know she likes art classes and keeps talking about that. She knows I'm in one with my sister
  3. Well she told me she would never cheat and never gets involved with guys too quick. I take her at face value She hasn't gone on about her ex. Only on that day complaining about her sex life and last week saying her therapist was shocked. No more than that really. She hasn't vented, besides venting about work from time to time Do I feel she's in the right mindset? I do, but again I take her at face value. She has rough days with her meds but she said she's always been this way
  4. You're so right about impaired state. It was a fun night but something we should repeat only if we're together. As it is we got too personal for friends I think You think that could be why she has ghosted our getting high hangouts? And just wants me to ask her on a real date? As I mentioned before I think, the day before that planned hangout she mentioned she wanted to go to this place but it was too expensive. I believe, believe, she said go with me, and I immediately said Iets go I'll pay no worries. But connected it with out getting high hangout, as in let's go after that. She was very distant today at work and it's really starting to affect me not knowing anything well. I should probably just ask her out properly on a date, with time and place like you said right? Either that or forget about her but that seems difficult right now She also mentioned how she doesn't like regular dates like dinner or movies so I gotta come up with something good. Then again I like that she told me that, gotta be good no?
  5. I'm decent to her and would certainly not overstep my bounds, but she keeps reaching out at work, more than she did before and still flirting. I don't know her perfectly but from what she's told me before and after her breakup, she's not the type for a rebound. Maybe she lied, who knows, but that's the impression she's given me
  6. No like when she says she wants to go eat at this place or go to this exhibit or wants to smoke and watch a fun movie. When she wants that and mentions is directly to me, should I ignore it and tell her sure it's a date or something like that?
  7. I'm bad at this, can you just tell me? I've been ignored/rejected before but not by someone who keeps wanting to have contact with me and keeps a flirtatious tone
  8. Ok stay in my lane, sure, leave her alone, sure. But, she keeps reaching out to me, whether to chit chat and random flirt or walk her home. I'm sure at some point she will again say she wants to go somewhere or outright invite me. What do I do then? Be more direct asking what her want or reject her?
  9. The whole picture is odd, that's the thing. If she was just ignoring me then great, but she keeps making plans with me, keeps looking at me for long period, keeps asking me to walk her home...and at the same time not answering texts for days. It's a very bent picture that I can't read
  10. I guess that's possible, but she used to behave like this before they even broke up, now it's just more. I will give her space though, if she wants something I guess she'll let me know? I am asking cause I'm clueless..
  11. Not just when she's drunk but in general. Making random plans, coming into my work area for no reason, staring intently at each other when we're all in a group today she again asked me to walk her home but didn't say a word about what happened over the weekend I dunno about the chase, since I usually avoid that ***, but deep down who knows right? I've never had an interaction like this type of drama, no. Most of my relationships and hookups are because the other person initiates it, just like she's done now. I'm terrible at reading people and often don't even realize they want something. Hence why I'm here
  12. I do feel it grew, though, as we've been closer than ever since, albeit hot and cold depending on the day
  13. I mean when she said that we had plans to go to her house the next day. And like I said she got a bad fever the next day. However that wasn't a date. If she says something like that again should I just specify I want to take her on a date?
  14. Well not ideal but at least I would know what is happening, right now I'm at a loss. Do you think I should just tell her "can we talk?" I mean communication is above everything
  15. I got it, yeah. I wanna ask her out because I feel like our relationship grew that night, but has stayed dormant since due to not doing anything together other than talking at work, walking her home and a bit of texting here and there. Like I want to know, or wait till she is in a better place, but then risk losing what we had that day
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