Herlife

Basically last week I found out a lot of things I found out that my ex boyfriend had cheated on me with my old close friend behind my back she didn’t know that me and him had dates due to me and her not being friends any more but we used to be close friends and he knows that so she me messages and proof that he had been cheating on me with her a month before we broke up due to me accusing him of cheating on me but at the time I didn’t have any proof but I knew he had been cheating on me so he carried on a lie about it for a year because he told me that he didn’t cheat on me and he also lied about flirting with my cousin behind my back and was trying to have sex with my cousin and he lied about that because my cousin told me plus she didn’t know me and him was dating but he bothered not to say anything which is considered him cheating still with my cousin and old friend because he did it behind my back but he also tried to pull a gun out on my old friend because she confronted him about his actions and she went to his house to try to talk to him and he pulled a gun out on her and he tried to attempt to do the same to me as well and he made up an excuse and told me the reason he didn’t tell me that he cheated was because he didn’t want to get in trouble by me and that the reason he cheated was because he was desperate to try to mess around with another female so I made a post asking people was it wrong for an ex boyfriend to try to lie and go behind yo back and flirt with your own cousin when you was dating and is it wrong to lie about cheating and is it wrong for him to go behind my back and date my old friend and sleep with her as well he thinks it’s not a big deal but it is so I get on Instagram live and I started talking bad about him and telling people about how he lied and manipulated me for a whole year knowing he had been cheating on me and how he lied about saying he loves me when he doesn’t so I think people were going back telling him that I was talking bad about him so then he had already had me blocked on Instagram for like twenty minutes then he unblocked me just to join my live and once he joined he commented something about rape rumors where he falsely accused me of telling people on social media that he so called raped me then he didn’t even give me a chance to even respond to what he had commented because he hurried up and blocked me right after

That’s the thing I feel like if I ask him he’s not going to do anything but make up excuses or avoid answering to it idk where his head is with the situation and idk if he even loves me based off on everything that had happened between us both

I feel like right now due to everything theirs no point of asking him to get back together maybe in the near future or something because I don’t know how he feels and due to him acting the way he was just acting towards me is very strange and uncalled for he’s been assuming things and had been questioning me about certain things but wants to hide things from me for whatever reason and him as far as in watching my social media is not going to cut it idk why he even does it but likes to hide his from me

I didn’t show up to argue with him he’s the one who initiated the argument I asked a simple question my question was what made you think to ask me if I had been showing people your house and he kept avoiding and ignoring my question on purpose but wanted me to answer his questions he then felt the need to basically go watch what I posted on social media after being rude to me when we don’t even follow each other on Instagram or other social medias

Once again I didn’t show up invited I told him that I would be on my way to his house to talk to him and he said he was already outside he’s pissed because he wanted to keep texting about the situation through Instagram rather than talk about it in person I asked him multiple times what makes you think to ask me if I have been showing people your house and he wouldn’t answer the question and for some reason after he was being rude to me he decided to basically go see what I posted on my story for him to watch on Instagram and I’m just like dude what’s your problem why do you feel obligated to do that your hiding your stories from me but wants to watch mines whenever you feel like it and then your questioning me and assuming things for what reason

Basically my ex boyfriend who I have been split up with for 10 months now and who I don’t deal with was being mean and hostile and rude towards me when I went to go speak to him at his house rather than to text him back on Instagram after the altercation happened at his house he had texted me telling me to be safe after we talked about the situation after it occurred at his house and he watched my Instagram stories right after he was being rude towards me at his house. All of this basically started on the day of my birthday so basically my birthday was on the 4th of February which was on Saturday and basically I was in my ex boyfriend’s neighborhood because one of my close friends lives on the same street as him so I went to her house so that we could celebrate and meet up for my birthday and basically I guess he seen me in his neighborhood walking and all and he decided to wait until after I left the neighborhood an hour later just to text me asking me wassup and that I got his attention now so what did I want and I texted him back on Instagram and told him that I didn’t need or want his attention and that I didn’t need anything or needed to talk nor see him about anything that day so then he texted back and said Ight so then boom the next day he texted me which was on Sunday morning and he texted me asking me if I had been showing people his house so then I responded and said huh *** cause Huh noooo so then I was like come outside cause he lives down the street from me so I told him to come outside so that we could talk about it so then he texted back and said *** weird asf and that I needed to supposedly stop walking around his house which is I never even did that any time I need to speak to him in person I would test him and let him know rather than show up to his house or around his house unannounced so I don’t know where he was getting that from so then he was like im already outside so boom I get I get over their and he’s like *** are you doing at my house and this and that and I’m just like *** do you mean what am I doing here so then he’s like you can’t just be showing up to my house like this so then he started being a smart ass towards me and he was being all hostile and mean to me to the point where I was getting emotional because he has never ever in his life spoke to me like the way he did that day and plus he was saying that oh I’m not even going to do you like that because your such and such cousin which is he is cool with the cousin who he mentioned when he said that which is my blood cousin so I took that as offense from him and then he also wouldn’t answer my question I asked him multiple times what led to him to ask me if I had been showing people his house because I would never do that that’s disrespectful and rude and he wouldn’t answer the question he kept dozing off and wouldn’t really look at me when I asked him the question but wanted me to sneer his questions but couldn’t even bother mines and then he was being more sarcastic towards me and then he was pissed due to me basically not answering his questions through Instagram since I had answered them when I went to his house to talk to him about it he basically wanted all of this through Instagram and then after talking to him he walked away and went back into his house and I guess he was watching me because he texted me saying oh why were you acting like you were crying cause I didn’t start crying until he went into his house plus that was like the first time I’ve ever really cried when it came down to him due to how he was acting toward me then he texted me telling me to be safe after talking about the situation from when he texted me after I left his house and then he decided to go purposely watch my Instagram stories right after even though he has his Instagram stories hidden from me as of to I don’t know when I do and we don’t even follow each other on social media so it leaves me confused and lost