ben

I'm not wound up and the fact you can't let me have the last word you have to keep replying proves you are.

HA, I'm not angry. I am enjoying winding you smug sods up.

Why can't people read. I ALREADY SAID I WOULD NOT F****** SAY ANYTHING TO HIM AT THIS POINT.

I ALREADY SAID I WOULD NOT F****** SAY ANYTHING TO HIM AT THIS POINT. It's the rude way people have responded. I get some points made but the way some user on here talk is just rude. I asked a question no matter the answers. I did not asked to be treated like s***. That is what I was on about and so many others have said the same. Advice for you all,,, GET OF THIS F****** FOURM.

If you knew about them cheating for over a year I be pissed. What took you so long. Maybe send a letter in the post with no trace to you?

That not what I was talking about. Where on earth did you get this from. I was talking about her waiting to post the photos. keep up.

I worried about my mate as he not in a great place at the moment. I don't want him going to the edge again. Yes I have a wife. She to polite to say anything out loud other than she doesn't like her.

I don't think his in the right headspace. He acting odd. You can see sadness in his eyes. He seems lost. It's these things wrong people can take advantage of. That is my worry. I'm not angry with her.

Having research into reviews of this forum I can tell why a lot of you are the way you are. I don't think any of you have a clue in life but are just judgemental from the back bedroom. I never said I would tell my mate. I will consider if I continue to stay silent or have a word. I take you point about going to the wedding but waiting over 24 hours to come back, staying and partying know his hurt and posting pictures less than 24 hours is very odd. I talked to a few people who agree. But I will say my mate made a point. If Rich said for her to go maybe he did not want her there as he not serious about her. Nature will take it's course. I just hope it's not at Rich expence.

You are taking quotes out of context then make a stupid point. Give it a rest wiseman.

She has a reputation for hurting guys who don't treat her like a princess. She is the typical school ***. Having seen what my mate had gone through in his life I don't want him to go there again something which I think is a possibility if she treats him like ***.

Batya I don't judge you on that. Your Husband and child are priory 1. I understand why you had to do what you had to do. The point I make is my mate was on his own. He just didn't not feel strong enough to say it in fear of upsetting her. What I am saying is she should have seen the pain he was in and did more. She did not make him priory 1. What also concerns me is my mate has had a rough month with all of this. He seems very lost. I am worried about him but I don't think she cares as much as his mates do and this was an example of that. It worries me for the future and what impact it will have on my mate. With the mental problems he had before, I just don't want to lose my mate you know.

So you don't think that's odd in anyway. You don't think she could not have waited? I get your view Wiseman. You think she did nothing wrong and it was ok for him to be on his own in his darkest hour. He should man up and get over it. You can stop now. She should have been more selfless. 7 months is a fair amount of time to be with someone. I bet she would be pissed if it was the other way round.

I haven't said anything and won't. But her behaviour not just on this occasion is odd. I don't think she has ever gone out of her way to to anything nice for him. But I will leave them to it but I hope he doesn't become a doormat. 7 months is not a new relationship.

It was clear by Thursday he was unlikely to make it to the end of the weekend. She still went. I get your point about going to the wedding. But could she not come back earlier? Did she have to go to the after party? The worst point for me was she posted the pictures less than 24 hours after his dad died. Could she not have waited?

I have not said anything about her to him. I only talked about other stuff with him. His been all over the place for the last month and I don't think he wanted to upset her but he clearly need her. She could not see her man in pain because she to busy. He saw not her priory. I had the same thing happen to me. My girlfriends Mum was dying. My mate and I were going to ibiza for his stag. I could see my girlfriend was upset and even though she said go I had a chat with my mate to which he understood and I stayed with her. Our relationship was 4 and a bit months old.

He would say that but when he called me earlier in the week you tell he was upset. You would have thought she would have seen this to and have done more to be with him like come back earlier. She might not be family but if she loves him then she could be in the future so I would have put him first. I would of with my partner. We follow each other on social media as we went to the same college. Her post came on my timeline.

My friend's (Rich) Dad has been ill for sometime. He was admitted to hospital looking very unwell. He condition got worse and sadly on Saturday the 6th he died. What is odd is his girlfriend Cara who had been with Rich in the lead up seeing his dad very unwell still decided to go to a wedding that weekend. I believe it was either her sisters or best friend wedding and she was bridesmaid but there was two other ones as well as her. She knew he had only days to live and still decided to leave the one she says she loves to go on a three day trip to a wedding. Worst still in less than 24 hours of his Dad dyeing she posted pictures of her at the wedding posing. If it was me I would have made Rich the priority and stayed with he as I know he would need me. Unlike Cara who made him second best. So I am asking am I being to protective of my mate or should she have stayed? Is she truly in love with him or not? They been together for around 7 months+.