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Hi! Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry that happened to you 😞 I did update, he came to the states! It went 10636228 times better than I anticipated. Australia is next, working on logistics. Trying to get a work from home option for my job for a few months. That way, I can stay as long as a travel visa will let me!

Can she orgasm when she masturbates? Have you tried asking her to show you how she makes herself orgasm? Maybe suggest a small vibrator and asking her what’s she wants you to do and what feels good. Take time without worrying about your orgasm to figure out what can make her orgasm. im sure you can spare a few orgasms since she’s spared quite a few too. 😉

Not really sure how this site works…. Maybe y’all will get the update? but I’m here to report that…. NICK VISITED. I was upfront and told him we should probably end this so we didn’t invest more time because I needed more. And more he gave It was the loveliest 12 days I’ve ever had. next stop— australia 🇦🇺

Hi! no, the breakup definitely was not recent. I was single for about a year when I met Nick. There is no feelings for my ex. I only mentioned it a few times, because I wanted to bring up the fact that I’ve had a “real” in person relationship, and I understand the hardships that go into living with someone building a life together. currently, the struggles are his schedule because he doesn’t fully have the time to travel to America for longer than a week. No children, never been married. Same for me. No kids, no husband. For past relationships, he dated someone through his high school and 3 years of college. He said they ended up breaking up because once they went to college and found new hobbies and activities, they just grew apart. Shes super artsy, and free spirited, and into spiritual soul searching now. He’s an engineer, very straight forward, not artsy etc. He pursued his masters and said he’s dated 2 other women that were more than casual. He harbors no bad feelings, just said it didn’t work out. I definitely am not moving to Australia anytime soon. But I guess I wanted the reassurance that there COULD be a possibility? reltionships are hard. IRL or online, so I’m not trying to make this seem like it’s easy. But just any insight or questions that would make me think if it’s right for me is nice. idk it’s hard to explain.

Your answer so far has been the best and eye opening. finances and time isn’t the issue, so yes. I have no hesitation spending the money or time to see him. To reiterate, he’d buy the plane ticket and I’d book the Airbnb. I’m looking *maybe* 3k for the entire 2 weeks I’d stay. however, the not jiving part is what is terrifying. If I’m there and it fizzles out, then at least I’m in a beautiful country with a lot to explore. But, emotionally I dont know if I could handle it. Especially if I still feel the same in person and he doesn’t.

I don’t necessarily think he’s perfect. And I definitely don’t think it will be as amazing as it is in small doses. But, I’ve seen multiple sides of him. When he’s been upset, frustrated, sad etc. yes, I’m not living a fantasy where I know it would be the exact same in person. however, speaking from history, do you ever really know someone? People change as soon as they’re comfortable. Online or in person. you hear of people who get married and all of a sudden their spouse turns possessive and abusive. Meeting in person didn’t prevent that. Again, I’m not saying this man and I are going to get married, or that it’s going to be in this honey moon phase. But, just a thought.

Hi! thanks for your input. I referenced him just so readers could understand that I’m aware or how an actual relationship is and that I have to experience IRL with a significant other. There was a year gap of being completely single before I ventured and found Nick. He is not in the picture, nor do either of us communicate. 🙂

Just to clarify, I have 8 weeks of PTO & I am blessed to be able to WFH when needed. I make around $120,000 a year. My job pays for housing. Nick* just started a new job and he’s an engineer. Money isn’t the issue for him, he just doesn’t want to request off work as soon as he started. Money or time isn’t the issue for me.

Hi- im not sure really where else to get advice because this story is unconventional. And long, so I’m so sorry for this book. i met a man named Nick* on a… naughty website. I don’t want to give too much information. But, everything was anon, and it was just *fun*. We chatted on a forum for a little, and then took it to DM’s on this site. It ends up turning into friendly conversation, and we move off the site to discord where we both have alternative names and it’s still anon. Discord platform was just better. We talk for weeks. Slowly I learn that he’s also 27, and we have stuff in common. A couple months go by, and he finally gives me his real first name and a selfie. He’s cute! I do the same. Our unusual way of meeting and the dynamic of how it was, changed to friendship. After a few months, he admitted that he’s never met someone with the same interest, etc. he gives me his Snapchat (this isn’t going to be a catfish story, I swear haha). We Snapchat frequently but I only know his first name still. Eventually he tells me his full name, and he gives me his Facebook. He respected boundaries, and told me I was not obligated to give him my name, or any personal information. But, after heavily vetting his Facebook, I do. We add each other. It’s been a year and some change now since we have “met”. I live in Maine (US) and he lives in Perth (Australia). So, I think we both never thought it would go any further than a nice chat. Well, our discord video chats we do once every few weeks turns into once a week, which turns into daily. yall, I am desperately in love with this man. I know it sounds insane. Because i was with my ex for 5 years. I know there’s so much to learn about someone, and online is only a small part. But, I KNOW it. I’ve never shared so much of my heart and soul and thoughts to anyone. If someone were to ask me over a year ago if you could fall in love over the internet, I would’ve laughed. Because it’s a crazy concept. We’re both not socially awkward, we have friends, we both have successful jobs, we’re both attractive. It’s not like I don’t know how to make a connection in real. That’s how I know i truly want this man. we recently exchanged care packages, and it was the most thought gift ive ever received, I sobbed. So here is my dilemma- I’m terrified. We both have admitted that we want more at some point. We started planning a meet up depending on how much time he can get off (recently started a new job. Not much PTO). We were trying to meet halfway, but his work schedule is intense right now. He did offer to pay for my plane ticket if I flew to Aus, and I would just rent the Airbnb. (I promise he’s not a serial killer). for whatever reason, today I’m having the overwhelming urge to just push him away because I am so scared. Because after 5 years of dating someone, my ex NEVER has made me feel like this. And no, my ex wasn’t crappy. He wasn’t a bad boyfriend and this Nick* isn’t a rebound coping method. What do I do? Does someone want to talk some sense into me? Should I just end our situationship and just deal with the heartbreak? I haven’t talked about this with anyone because I know everyone will think I’m nuts. My best friend knows, and she told me to go for it.