Brand11

It just seems like everything goes so well from both the physical and the not physical aspects of it. Like we seem to get along great and then bam the next day they arent interested in anything, so what are they interested in? So I'll ask them and they never give an answer. They can never give any actual explanation such as "you smell bad" or "you talk too much" or "you dont listen to me" they dont say any actual reason so like ? So with all these options they never get in a relationship? Most of these girls im on social media with and a month after telling me no, they are in a happy relationship with some guy that personally doesnt even seem close to my league. Someone once told me it's possible that im almost too good that it's intimidating to them? Idk lol You could say the numbers are in my favor, but this has been 4 years of nonstop dating. I got close with 1 girl, we went out for about a month multiple times, then in the end said "i lost interest"

I forget if i put it in my reply. But theres multiple very valid reasons. They do not stop talking and you cant get any kind of decent communication, they dont talk at all and are just completely closed off to any kind of convo, they arent into a single thing I'm into and there's no way of talking about any interests, they are just crazy and have no job or drivers license or future, they live really far and its just too difficult. Lots of reasons

That's actually a good thought I like what you said there. Me personally i would like this the most. But the problem is majority of girls I've tried anything even close to that with, even after 1 or 2 days, just say "im not ready to be going out i dont know nearly enough about you yet" or they just get turned off about it so it might chase away someone good. Also there have been girls that after months of texting finally were "not busy enough" to go out and we went out and i liked them a lot

I always talk to them for about 2 or 3 weeks before going out. Usually a phone call in there. I dont get what makes them so excited to meet me and everything seems great, then we meet and it's like no and it never goes further. We never meet at their home, we go out to eat or to a bar or something and then without me even asking they invite me to hang at their place. We never have sex, only kiss. How could someone think making out is just "fun" like if theres nothing behind it then im not making out with you

What i dont get is you say they are just looking for a quickie but they dont even do that lol. We don't even hook up and sleep with eachother so if they're just looking for that then why cant i even at least get that? We did talk on the phone once and we messaged for like 4 weeks before going out

Everyone else i know is with someone and has been with multiple people. Ive never been officially with someone. Yet im told by friends, both guys and girls, that I'm better than they are and they cant even understand why i cant find anyone. After the date they say "i am looking for a relationship but not with you" we both know ahead of time we both want a relationship

For some reason everyone i go out with says "they dont feel a genuine connection and we dont vibe" literally i could copy and past tons of these text messages. In actual english language what does that even mean. We talk about eachothers lives, what kinds of things we are into, and then kiss and go home. What special thing are other people doing that they are getting into relationships? Why does everybody say okay to dates with me, but then nobody continues. Am I supposed to like jump up on the table and do a flip off of it? Like what more can i possibly do. We have a conversation that flows nonstop and never really stops. We have the same interests. There also must be physical attraction that you are jamming your tongue down my throat, she initiated that and i did not. If i dont kiss her then people say i messed up and she got the message i dont want her, then i do kiss her and people say slow down on kissing her. What are types of women can you tell me what types of women there are? I see them all the same like i dont see any difference, you are who you are. As long as i find you cute, you like similar things as i do, and i like talking to you then that's all you can go off of. Am i supposed to go with someone i dont like is that the trick?

People say that but what does that even mean? That's not really a possible thing to think about. If you like how someone looks and they seem like a fun person that you can get to know and you share things in common why not go out? If someone agrees to go out why would they not feel a connection, you're agreeing to go out with me in the first place. If you dont like me, then you would not go out with me. The thing is, she brought me back to her place and thats where we made out. But we didnt even hook up or do anything else besides that

I felt butterflies, so why would you invite me out, invite me to her house (thats where we were, she brought me back to her house) and make out with me if you dont want anything? I've never seen someone that's interested not want to kiss after the first date or at least show enough interest and not kiss after the first one. If you dont kiss someone it feels as if you aren't interested. Id rather kiss

What spark like i dont get it? Why did she continually shove her tongue down my throat and bite my lip and we both returned the same things for like 5 minutes straight. People say the kissing thing and that just wouldnt make sense. It's not me even that's initiating it, it's them. The girl always does so if you arent into a guy, why are you climbing all over them to kiss? If i wouldnt kiss them back that would just be a deal breaker right there

So I'm a 27 male and never really been in a relationship I've gone on hundreds of dates, probably about 250-300 dates. They're mostly from dating apps or messaging on social media. For some reason we talk a lot, everything is going great, we're both excited to finally go out. Most of time the date feels good, we talk about things we're into, get to know eachother, convo flows well the entire time, no weird moments. Most of the time after the date we make out for a long time. So it's like you must feel good about it that you're making out with me right? Then the next day energy is completely different, they dont act interested at all. And then 90% of them say the same exact line "I didnt feel a connection" And this only comes from girls that I'm actually into and really like and want to move forward with. The only girls that dont say that and want to move on are ones I'm not crazy about and dont want to move foward. What is this and what more can someone possibly do? Why does nobody I actually like go further?