Weelis02

Yeah I do understand that. If that had been the case I would have understood. But it was always him that would mention moving in and how excited he was. Not me. 2 days before he left he was even talking about future kids! So I’m just confused with it all. And then the unblocking.

Yeah we had discussed moving in together in august. He kept saying he was excited and asked about furniture he could buy for the house etc. saying he couldn’t wait to do it

I came home to a note saying he was sorry that he didn’t think he was ready for this. He always kept some clothes, toiletries etc at mine for when he stayed over. He went back to where he lives. I’m just really confused as the night before he left we had a lovely night. Watched a film, had some food, talked lots, laughed lots. Just all like normal. But then the next morning as I went to get out of bed and he pulled me back for a cuddle. Maybe that was his way of saying bye. I don’t know.

My ex told me he didn’t think he was ready for this relationship, after 10 months. He took all his stuff whilst I was at work. I tried to call him but was blocked on normal and WhatsApp. I sent him a big message from a spare phone saying how sad and disappointed I was that he couldn’t say it to my face and didn’t let me say goodbye properly. I also said that unblocking me would be the mature way to go about things now. I told him I was hoping we could have still messaged sometimes even though the relationship was over. I left it saying he knew where I was if he wanted to talk. I sent that on Wednesday at midnight. He didn’t block the spare phone and then I noticed on Wednesday evening around 6pm he’d unblocked me. He hasn’t contacted me though. Could he have unblocked me because he sees that I’m not going to contact him again? He didn’t block the other spare phone number and I sent quite a few angry messages before the big message to him. Surely he’s not hoping I’ll reach out to him 1st?