hey there, im a melburnian myself(having moved here not too long ago).. im not gay myself.. but my bf who is from Warrnambool has an older brother who is gay and i've been told that the gay community there is not exactly massive.... Well,considering the fact that you are now in Melbourne, I suggest that you hang out at Chapel St (ive been told that they have a pretty good gay community there on the weekens )and attend more events, parties ... My bf's bro found the love of his life at the Mardi Gras ... so yeah, look out for that one next year. If you need to talk, dont be afraid to message me life is tough,for everyone, but it'll all be worth it in the end