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  1. hey there, im a melburnian myself(having moved here not too long ago).. im not gay myself.. but my bf who is from Warrnambool has an older brother who is gay and i've been told that the gay community there is not exactly massive.... Well,considering the fact that you are now in Melbourne, I suggest that you hang out at Chapel St (ive been told that they have a pretty good gay community there on the weekens )and attend more events, parties ... My bf's bro found the love of his life at the Mardi Gras ... so yeah, look out for that one next year. If you need to talk, dont be afraid to message me life is tough,for everyone, but it'll all be worth it in the end
  2. im currently in an interracial relationship myself... we've been going out for a while now.. and because both of us are still in university, marriage is not exactly gonna happen in at least 3-5 yrs or so. but i totally understand being your shoes. I went out with this Muslim guy(He's from Iraq) and I'm Chinese( Malaysian born) and we met while he was in Malaysia studying.. When it came to meeting his folks, it was the worst experience of my life.. I was wearing quite conservatively as I respected the whole religion . His folks were staring at me and pointing fingers, raising their voices in Arabic.... We were together for more than 6 mths then... I felt so out of place... But knowing my status, I apologised to them and I ran out of the house. I couldn't stand it.. We broke up few mths later bcus he knew that his parents were not gonna let him see me, ever... As for my current boyfriend, he's white( he converted to Buddhism before he met me) and I'm Asian(buddhist my birth).. So far so good... But yeah,these things take time and it is definitely a challenge but it'll all be worth it in the end take is slow and in the process, dont change yourself but change what others think of you.thats the most important.
  3. being a girl myself, i think i can see why she's acting like that..firstly, she's probably still having doubts about taking it with u as more than just mates..secondly, she might think that the friendship will be affected and if things dont work out.. it's gonna be hard on both sides.. so , you shouldn't worry about it..things will work out just fine have heaps of rest and impress her with the killer smile of yers cheers.
  4. I've been using lavalife.. That's where I met my current boyfriend.. I reckon lavalife is good if you live in Australia(like me) cus heaps of people know about it here and thereforeeee there's more people who join... only thing is tho, u need to buy credits.... Ive gotta thank lavalife because I finally found the guy who loves me for who I am..although he lives 1.5 hrs away... and we've been going out for a while
  5. Hey! i was in rmit today as well. and was at the psychology place.. were u the one with yer mum chatting with one of the staff members at about 12 or 1 ? I sooo wanna be doing psychology as well..and social work seems appealing.the thing is though, 5 yrs for social work and psych is just scaring me off. We're gonna get thru vce girly!!!!! Yay Good luck
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