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    What wrong with messaging someone on Facebook? Using direct messaging is pretty common these days
  3. Cumbrian Tom
    How would you go about it?
  4. Cumbrian Tom
    No. I'm trying to contact her to get to know her. I might find that she's not someone I would want to date. You should just see what happens.
  5. Cumbrian Tom
    Thanks. I won't be weird and mention the dating site. I'll just say she came up as 'someone you may know' and I thought I'd say hi! If she replies then great! If not I won't be chasing it up as THAT is when it starts to get creepy. Thanks Again for your reply!
  6. Cumbrian Tom
    ... I'm not trying to talk to kids...
  7. Cumbrian Tom
    FB itself is for oldsters? But she is on Facebook...?
  8. Cumbrian Tom
    Ta. Nothing to lose, and if it's common of 20 year olds... I probs should have put our ages in the original post.
  9. Cumbrian Tom
    You're just being ridiculous now. As Tinydance has said, I should give it a go. I am 20 and she is 21. Apparently it's common among our age group.
  10. Cumbrian Tom
    I'm 20 and she is 21. It's not like I am trying to message a 30 year old. I've decided to drop the 'met you on a dating site and say that she was in my recommended feed (she does live just outside my town).
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    She hasn't paid to use the app otherwise I'd be able to message her. The app is free to browse but you need to pay a subscription to message and receive messages (BUT if one person has a full membership, other users can message them for free).
  12. Cumbrian Tom
    You're not making yourself very clear. Messaging on a dating app means you're just another random too. The app literally only offers her as a compatible match in our location. What's so wrong with saying hi to someone on Facebook? You'd do it in real life wouldn't you?
  13. Cumbrian Tom
    I don't want Tinder. Tinder is for (lets be honest here) when you want a casual hook up with a less than desirable woman. The price has nothing to do with it. All I am saying is that the selection of women using the app in my local area is so small that she is the only person I have common interests with. The likely hood of me getting ignored messaging her through the dating site is pretty high so why spend £50 to be ignored when I can get ignored for free via Facebook? She is wanting a serious relationship (though she hasn't paid for full membership as full membership means someone else can message you even if they don't have a membership.) Just because she is on a dating app, does that mean she is closed off to meeting people elsewhere? Alas in real life? Or other outlets? Is it creepy to say hi to someone who caught your eye in real life?
  14. Cumbrian Tom
    Where's this idea that I can't afford it come from? All I am saying is that the selection of women using the app in my local area is so small that she is the only person I have common interests with. The likely hood of me getting ignored messaging her through the dating site is pretty high so why spend £50 to be ignored when I can get ignored for free via Facebook? She is wanting a serious relationship (though she hasn't paid for full membership as full membership means someone else can message you even if they don't have a membership.) Just because she is on a dating app, does that mean she is closed off to meeting people elsewhere? Alas in real life? Or other outlets?
  15. Cumbrian Tom
    Thanks
  16. Cumbrian Tom
    She hasn't taken these steps. She's on a public social networking site so can hardly complain. I feel it varies by person. Would you find it odd if someone say's hi when they pass you in the street?
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