Dreamer

@lostandhurt did you find out she was cheating, did she own up and are you still together! I would find it hard to forgive and it would eat away at me until I would end it! I’m sorry for your pain, think if we have a gut feeling, it’s normally black and white, we need to follow our intuition!

We do live together and he talks about the future for us and the only thing that has changed is him looking over his shoulder to see if I’m looking while on his phone or laptop, he also switching screens wen I come close. I am going to be vigilant and he’ll slip up, I just have to find evidence! He hardly ever goes out, so don’t think it could be a physical thing if he’s up to something! Living like ‘normal’ for me isn’t easy, I’m sad and broken as I thought this was IT for me, but I will not live with deceit! This is not going to be easy, but I need a conclusion soon!

Thank you for responding. He treats me the same as always, talks about the future for us. He also added me to his trust fund but this odd behavior is confusing me. I will confront him but I have to have evidence! One day he’ll trip up! Thank you

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years, although nothing much has changed between us, I have seen him looking over his shoulder when he’s on his phone and one time he opened a text message love hearts flew out of the message, he deleted the message very quick and I did not confront him because we were not in a place to have that conversation. I’m having sleepless nights and am confused because nothing much has changed between us! Do I confront him with this, it’s tearing me apart, I’m sure it’ll end us if I see he’s lying and he’s talking to someone inappropriately or he admits to it!