checkered_mind

Yea he’s met her a couple of times.

He knew I was going to visit my dying grandma so if that’s the case and the reason he’s basically ignoring me than that would be pretty ***ty of him ngl

Well we both work. I work during the day and he works at night so sometimes it’s difficult to see each other during the week. We do see each other during the week sometimes. We’ve talked about moving into together eventually. He just graduated from college recently and is trying to find a more full time adult job so I don’t think we’re ready for that just yet.

I mean it’s been good. We’ve had some up’s and downs like I feel every relationship has at some points but for the most part it’s pretty stable. We usually text everyday. Not a lot but just a bit throughout the day when we aren’t busy and he usually calls me on his way to work so we can discuss our day since we work different hours. We typically hangout during the weekend and sometimes during the week if he aren’t too busy. Like I said he seemed fine during the week when we were talking on the phone and texting and I got dinner with him this past Wednesday and he seemed like his normal self so I’m just confused and definitely a little worried about him, but I think I’ll definitely just give him space today and reach out to him tomorrow.

We’ve been dating for about a little over a year and a half. He’s 24 and I’m 25.

Everything has seemed fine. We’ve been talking, texting, and hanging out like normal. He works at night so yesterday I was going to go over to his place and hangout for a bit before he has to go into work. I was also going to visit my grandma who has recently started hospice and hasn’t been doing very well so I wanted to spend some time with her since she probably won’t be around for very much longer. I ended up visiting with her longer than expected and my boyfriend said there was no point coming over since we couldn’t get to hangout very long before he has to start getting ready for work which I understood. I told him he could call me on his way to work if he wanted since I would be home which is something we do regularly. He didn’t respond so I assumed he fell asleep. It was starting to get closer to when he usually leaves for work and I still hasn’t gotten any texts or a call from him so I was a little confused. I texted him and asked if everything was ok. A bit later he just texted back “yea.” I asked him what was wrong and if he was upset with me and he said “no we’ll talk about it a different day.” I told him that I had a really difficult day today (in regards to visiting my grandma) and I just wanted to make sure there were no issues or anything. He responded with “Yeah you're going through a lot so I don't want to add anything to that. I'm just really going through it lately and have been in a pretty bad spot. I'm gonna go. I’ll talk to you on Monday.” I just said “Ok. I love you” and he hasn’t responded to that or anything. He has been active on social media tho so I assume he’s seen my text. I kind of want to text him but it kind of seems like he wants some space and that we’ll talk tomorrow. I know this is kind of long and I’m sorry I’m just kind of worried and don’t know what to do.

I know I agree. I asked if we could speak about this on the phone because this really ain’t a conversation I want to have over text but he said he can barely talk because he doesn’t have much of a voice and basically shot me down with that idea.

He is vaccinated and wears his mask for the most time as far as I’m aware. Anytime I go out with him anywhere he puts his mask on. I’m not sure why he didn’t when he went to a concert a couple weeks ago but usually he does.

No he was looking forward to going with me. I even went out to help him pick out and shirt and tie and everything. He seemed to have a good time while he was there too.

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half and things have been pretty good. Last weekend he went to a wedding with me and unfortunately a lot of people who attended got covid. I’m fine but he got it and ever since he found out he’s been really distant. I’ve tried to text him and see how he’s doing and he gives really short responses and when I try to ask more he just says “I’m fine” which he clearly isn’t. At first I just chalked it up to him not wanting to talk because he doesn’t feel well. That was until last night when he told me that the whole wedding rubbed him the wrong way because the first time meeting my family he gets sick and everyone was supposed to test beforehand. I tried to explain that while it’s unfortunate that this happened he could get covid anywhere. I mean he went to a concert a couple weeks ago where no one was wearing a mask and could’ve easily gotten it then. He was lucky and he didn’t but it could’ve happened. Also people could’ve taken a test and have it come back negative because they tested to soon or something. I’ve apologized to him so many times because I feel bad he got sick, but like I shouldn’t even have to apologize because it’s not my fault he got sick. He made the choice to come, I didn’t force him. How were we supposed to know that was going to happen? I asked him where we stand and all he said was “we’re fine” and then said that he just had a lot going on and this didn’t help. His parents are also apparently pretty upset with him about the whole thing too which I feel bad about. His parents really liked me and now I feel like that’s ruined. I think I’m just going to stop texting him and just give him some space for a bit but like idk what else to do. I don’t want this to be the end of our relationship, but it sort of feels like it is even though he said we’re fine.