Hershey_S

Yes I am planning on moving out by the end of summer completely but I still don't know what to tell my ex as I want to tell her about this but don't know if it's too soon or if I should tell her at all.

My dad has no idea about my relationship at all. Like the whole fact that I have been dating. He has never met my gf and doesn't know about her. I already have money lined up for college as does she as she has been working. I am in computer science so my internships pay well so it will cover my tuition. I also have scholarships to cover my living expenses.

We are both 18. I turn 19 in a month. I know all her close friends and have met her family and she's met my close friends and my sister. My dad is really controlling and doesn't let me or my sister who is 21 do anything when we are at home. I have a really bad relation with him so it's fine if I break boundaries there as he never respected me but now I feel like it's too late to show my girlfriend. I understand what you're saying about long distance and I feel like that was part of the reason we broke up. I just feel like I couldn't give 100% due to my home issues and now I've had some time to recollect I want to give her all my time and love when I'm in town like I wanted to. I just don't know if or when I should tell her.

A few weeks back my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We were still in love with each other but circumstances made it hard for us to keep our barriers open especially her. She felt like she was losing her emotional connection with me. We were dating in secret because my dad does not support me being in relationships and it made it hard for us to meet up even though we were not long distance. Later this year I am going to college for 2 years. I really feel like we were perfect for each other and she said the same but it was just the wrong time. I want to show her that I'm willing to do whatever it takes for us. I will tell my dad so I can meet her everyday during breaks and visit her every month during long distance. I just recently opened up contact with her as friends, but it hurts cause it's not the same as before. She also doesn't respond really fast which is fine as I am not her bf anymore but I feel like she's closed herself from me.