So my gf and I have been together for almost two years; and we're both mainly homebodies but my gf does go out 90 percent of Friday nights. With her female coworkers and I trust her no problem there I think. Well she already goes out Friday nights and as of now the last 4 Saturdays shes been wanting to go out with her friends or cousin. (Also female.) So she get her time out and she has a hard job so she deserves it. That said, now the problem. I don't know how it happened, I guess just one "no" or the right excuse at a time but I haven't been out in a year, with anyone except her.. the only time I actually get out is if I go to the gym. But even then she's like "okay so you'll be home in like what? An hour and a half?" Like I can feel she doesn't want me to leave and once I really thought about it today, she's turned every time I wanted to go out except once and I was there for 30 minutes.. So I finally told her look, I feel like you get to "tell" me when you're going out but I have to "ask" and you always say no. And she stayed silent for a few seconds then said "aww babe I'm sorry.. you can go out too if that's what you want to do." Cool she said that but honestly I feel like she was very hesitant and tense when she said it. She's not good with confrontation so it could be the way I brought it up but I really don't know where she really sits. Anyway she told me shes going out this Saturday night and so I'm finally like *** it I'm gonna go out too then, my dad wants to watch the kid and I deserve it seeing I haven't been out in over a year. I'm afraid though, alot of times when one person starts the whole "weLL If You'Re GoInG oUT Then So Am I?!" Thing it just makes *** worse. Even if I'm doing it just this once. Obviously I won't say it like that but I feel like that's how she's gonna take it. I'm mad though, she never invites me out but then she'll show up at home and tell me about what so and so's boyfriend did or said.? So everyone else can invite their boyfriend except you?? I only get invites to family things. Last time I tried to go out she tried to invite herself like "aw your gonna go play pool? Lucky!! I wanna come! You never take me to play pool?" Like oh okay?. you never bring me with but I gotta bring you?? *** nah right?? Either way y'all think me going out is a good idea or a bad, I know this may seem silly but I feel like this gonna make her want to go out more or I'm gonna come home and she's gonna be mad at me. Idk maybe I shouldn't go out? I just got this weird feeling *** ain't gonna be cool, like she's pretending she wants me to go out. Girls where you think her head is at? What would you do if it was me?
