I have been dating someone exclusively for almost 5 months. While I have met some of his friends and he made plans for me to meet his brother who I graciously agreed can stay at my home and his only sibling - his parents are already passed on; I have not met his adult children. He told me they know about me and he was going to set up a time for all of us to meet in person....but nothing has been set up so far.
I have introduced him to both of my adult children, a few close friends and one of my sisters.
He is also attending a wedding shower this weekend and the wedding in March w/o me. While I realize I have only met the friends in question, I am insulted. I believe the real reason is that my bf's ex will be there and it will make him feel too uncomfortable (but what about me)?
He talks about moving in this year together and we planned a trip later in April for 4 days together yet he doesn't introduce me to his adult kids or take me to a wedding and wedding shower?
I don't want to waste any time - we are both in our 60s.
I just get the feeling like while he makes time for me, he could treat me better. I treat him very well and buy him food to eat when he visits me so he knows I think of him. But when I visit him, he doesn't do anything at all -only if it benefits him too.
Valentine Day is coming up and I'm uncertain what, if any, gift to buy him. He did buy me a sweater for the holidays and gave me a card which said he really cares for me and he signed it "Love". Other than that, he says nothing about the way he feels; doesn't buy flowers when he visits for the weekend or do anything in particular that makes me feel like he really sees me as a long term partner. FYI, he invited his brother to my house that weekend - real romantic.
Am I being impatient?
