Targeted student

Actually, he has more red flags than I could count but I'll try listing them out but first I’ll tell you one of them in detail. Ok so when my friend was still dating him, she was dancing or something idk. And she had brushed his stomach also he’s like 5’6? She’s like 5’2? Anyways she apologized, but he said to “make it up to him” if he could touch her stomach. 🚩

I really would like to 😄! But most boys see me as weird because I don’t wear two inch lashes and apply lipgloss every two seconds. And by “notorious couple” I mean everyone knew they were dating.

Thanks guys! I’ve honestly tried figuring out ways we could date but gladly I couldn’t find a way. We only have 1 class together and he only communicates through Instagram. Also I don’t have Instagram due to drama previously in the year. But although he made my heart flutter, I’ll have to ignore it knowing it might not end well.

Ok so I’ll just start from when they were still dating. My friend had dated a guy for some time and she had her life I had mine so we never really crossed paths. So when the new school year started it was strange. It was normal at first until her boyfriend joined the class, since we knew each-other briefly online I just started talking to him. He and my friend are one of the notorious couples. So I knew to keep my boundaries. But the more we started to talk the closer we looked apparently. One day he told me that someone in the class we were in had told my friend that he was cheating on her with me😳(he told me this). But I only had one class with him so it’s someone who is in that same class. I didn’t really find out what was really happening until I got closer to my friend. But that’s later. So he one day I wanted his help on the work ‘cause I was tired and wanted to fall asleep. He was gonna help me but he stood up to go to my seat, like bro first of all I could just face my work to you. Second, I see no reason you have to squat and hold on to my chair. At one point I get a question right but this is where I put a stop to it. My jeans were ripped right at the top of my thigh. And this mf tapped it like pat-pat on it. I told him to go to his seat after that but I told my friends in case it was worse than I thought. Although I regretted it because they confronted him about it. And we sat next to each other and we didn’t talk until I was moved somewhere else. Eventually he got moved next to me. It was awkward at first but then we started talking again. And at that point he broke up with my friend. They broke up because she found so many red flags. And I knew how bad he was so I knew I’m never going to date him. He literally follows like 127 strippers on TikTok. But then he started making little moves that made my heart flutter just a tiny bit. One day I got to skip a period and go to an ice cream party in that class. But he was there too. But none of my friends were 😭. So I just went on my phone . But he kept coming up to me asking if I wanted someone to talk to. I said I was fine cause I liked tiktok bro. Then he didn’t stop so after his last attempt I grabbed a game but then he came along. He guided my hand how to play. Like no need to hold my hand when there is instructions. So a couple days after we were talking but it wasn’t like usual we stared into each others eyes. He stared into mine. 😳 and I’m like thinking is this the guy who I’m supposed to hate? And today it was the worst I was just playing with my hair, putting my fingers through it. But I didn’t think he’d care because he was talking with the boyz since he invited them to our area bc why not. But yeah I played with my hair but he told me “Your hair is messed up” I’m like “*** what did you say 😐” cause I thought he was insulting me. He said “lean forward” I’m like “huh!???” Like dude *** do you want me to do THAT?! He just said it again lean forward but his hands were out like if he was praising someone lol. But he fixed my hair for me and said it was soft and pretty. So now I’m trying to figure out how to date him without my friends hating me.

Thanks for your help! Truth is I already brought it up with both the guidance counselor and discipline. They didn’t do anything since they only talked to me, but they know that my bully is rude and try their best to keep us a safe distance. But she was way too close in this class. Also I think the teacher did not do much because she thought “there’s no one in the background that could be seen in any undergarments” so they said it was fine. But I’m considering on telling my mother since this is considered a leniency on the school, especially with our “no phones policy” Due to that students are often required to have a parent-pick up.

Thank you! 🙏 Many of my friends agree with the fact that knowing the girls are fight-prone at school, that the teachers should have done something more. One of the girls literally has a bruise on her cheek from the last fight. And the girl literally had no reason to tell my bully unless she was mad or scared to be honest.

Ok, this started when this girl, a year younger than me, skips into the locker room area with her filming a TikTok. I usually don’t mind as long as they are backed up on a wall or something. But this girl did the usual cute face at the start then put the phone down and started dancing while a friend joined. In a different part of the locker room these other girls have a Polaroid camera taking a picture against the wall. The girl originally in with the phone had already started changing. But the camera had done a flash and she had saw it and yelled “don’t take pictures guys, violation of privacy!” I literally got so mad “hypocrite!” I thought. And I yelled “well maybe you shouldn’t be filming a TikTok while we’re changing!?” She looks at me dead in the eyes and says “ well no one asked you!?” I got more fed up with her and said “Sorry, guess you didn’t notice cause your lashes are too thick” and I just closed my locker and headed for the teacher ‘cause I’m about to hit this literal 5 year old. I told the teacher and she said “ok I’ll deal with it” apparently she did not. So after pe, the girl comes back to that area giggling and quoting the words of the teacher “She said she isn’t going to do anything” I was actually pissed. So I left and the girl with the Polaroid camera was raving about how it was taken away. I went up to her and told her the story and she said “no wonder, those girls don’t like us for some reason so that’s why they said it when they were doing something 8 times worse!” I didn’t really know if it was worse but I still agreed with her. I go into the cafeteria with my friends and only about 20 students eat inside while everyone else is outside. I notice she walked in but with someone in particular, My bully. My bully constantly glares at me and tells me I’m not worth any love. That was a while ago though, she’s ignored me lots now and I’m fine with that. But the TikTok girl had told my bully and now she started glaring at me again. I’m honestly not intimidated by her glaring but I am by the fact that all of those girls are notoriously known for beating up others. And with any fighting at school they will have to call a parent and I don’t even tell my parents about school besides my grades. My reason being cause they are strict and despise getting calls from school that aren’t about how “exceptional” I am. Anyways after lunch, my bully, sits in the row in front of me. And as soon as class started she glared and said “Why did you snitch on $&@;€?!” And I’m like already pissed at her so I said “she shouldn’t record in the first place.” She immediately responded with “well it was none of your business anyways” I just yelled at this point “well it is when my naked body is included.” After that she rolled her eyes as if I’ll get intimidated by that. And the class was doing really good. Although I look at she’s actually glaring at me like a street dog seeing someone with food. I don’t know if I will get any advice. But I’d just like to know if what I did was right. And if the teachers were being too lenient on the TikTok girls.