Christina2022

Okay. You’re welcome to not respond. Then it won’t be revived

Shouldn’t this advice be towards the ex wife?

No. He paid and I put it in my name to hide assets for the upcoming( at that time) lawsuit his ex wife filed on him. And he WAS committed… gave me a engagement ring. And exclusivity not only on fb but out in public. We were very much so together. Don’t know how else to prove how exclusive we were to you all.

I HAVE left it alone. People have responded to my post and I am responding back. But I don’t think you’ve read the whole thread. It’s obvious I wasn’t and I was foolish to even ask. I concluded that the ex wife was just something to do and I got the better end of things. She got nothing but a settlement check and egg on her face while I got more without having to marry him.

You are REALLY sounding like the ex wife… are you her? She had the nerve to ask me about why I called a 17 yr old a B…. As if it’s any of her business. I owned up to it because that’s what the girl deserved since she along with her brother and father were bullying the crap out of the brothers wife. The ex wife wasn’t THERE , just like you weren’t. Y’all don’t know how the environment was.

Sorry just seeing this. Yes I do feel like he took me for granted. I did a lot for him! And I mean ALOT. He store was broken into TWICE… I helped put bars on the windows of his stores. I gave his daughter one of my sons cars and how does the daughter repay me? By picking on me, breaking my straw while we were out at a restaurant visiting his son out of state because her dad and son paid her to do it. So I rightfully told her she was acting like a B&@$?. yea he had to have been seeing someone else because when I told him I wanted to move slow, he takes it as him having the freedom to see other ppl. I didn’t think at the time he was because why would or could he? He had me plastered ALL over his fb page with photos of trips we took. Maybe I was just a trophy he was using to get back at his ex wife but I don’t think so. He talked about her like a dog. So ID assume, he NEVER would go back to her or want to go back to her, ESPECIALLY after the lawsuit and with how he told me he never loved her, just felt bad for her and and married her because his pitbull bit her face off. So SURELY ANYONE can understand confusion when it’s implied that he and the ex wife are possibly back together. It’s a “scratching of the head”moment.

Well he always had me looking crazy… that’s only because he has to be narcissistic or has signs of it. And I don’t want anything to do with him either. Still don’t see why you feel like you don’t feel like we weren’t in a relationship or that I never really had the girlfriend title. Of course I did. They divorced in august… he and I started seeing each other in early may. Suspicious from the start? How so? You feel like he just wanted to be with me because he wanted to put titles in my name? I am done with them or trying to have any involvement with them. They can have each other. I saw them both leaving out at his building (company) and I knew they were involved. So that’s when I asked for my bike back. No I’m not. Not sure what you’re reading. I’m just pointing out facts.

Well she could have at least told me she was going to talk to him about the ring. And I shouldn’t be the one looking crazy. THEY should. And I WAS considered a girlfriend. We did relationship type of things, and were in each other’s fb as being in a relationship with each other. So I don’t know what happened to where things just fell apart. I know I need to move on and will… but something must have happened for him to just dump me.

I guess y’all were right I should have never reached out to her because she went back and confronted him about the ring . I didn’t expect her to do that. I just thought she would just keep her distance and feel silly for ever being in touch. This has all backfired on me because he didn’t confront ME. He told my ex mother in law (my ex husbands mom who works for him at his company). They turned this all around on me as though IM the crazy one. He had $3,000 stolen out of the safe( the same safe his ex wife wedding ring was in) and now he’s accusing ME of it. Said he never had feelings for me and I WAS just a rebound and he was hurt over his ex wife leaving him and assuming she cheated( he did talk to me about the cheating and her leaving). I don’t believe this because who just hands over $10,000 to someone like that? So no I refuse to believe he never loved or never had feelings for me. I did text asking her why she told him things we talked about but she never responded. So We have the truck out of my name and I am going on with my life. But I will say that I got treated better than the wife ever did.

Well I didn’t want to be involved in their business but the way he would spin it, he made me feel bad for him so I got involved. I had to make sure the divorce papers got sent to the courthouse so they got divorced and everything gets taken care of. Well at least he divorced her so I look better than her. She’s the one who looks foolish. Not me. Instead of him handling the divorce, I took care of things and it got taken care of. I got $10,000 out of it, trips and a potential house but I didn’t NEED a house because I already HAVE a house. THOSE 2 look foolish and how did someone else put it up in here? Duped and used. I got MINE. And left out unscathed. Yes I categorized it at that because he cheated WITH me on HER who is foolish enough to even entertain him, if true. She said that went to lunch for “ closure” and to move on with her life. I asked her “ why even do THAT?” She said it was between them. Well I let HER know all the things he’s done for me in the time he and I were together. Let her know after a month together I got a ring, took her 3 years. But IM the one that was duped? Please. He upgraded MY engagement… because I saw hers and let her know mine was an upgrade from hers. Though he is worth more now than he was when they got engaged, it shows that he didn’t think too much of her. But she expects me to believe he cares about her just because he dumps me an acts for her back. No he was DESPERATE. And I was silly to ask about me being a rebound. If anything SHE IS. he paid in full the truck like I had mentioned so I don’t have to worry about any payments biting me in the butt. “Good grief “

Well I’m sorry but I felt like it WAS my business! If it weren’t for her suing him and him needing for me to put things in my name we wouldn’t be here. I do. And I am thankful. I was a fool to leave this guy for this man. It was nothing but toxic. I don’t want him. And I told her to let her know that she is quite silly to get back involved with someone who not only cheated on her when they were separated with me, he rubbed me in her face ( and he rubbed her in my face talking about her all the time) and showing her lingerie photos to me because I didn’t want to dress in lingerie, SHE needs HER HEAD examined. Well we are taking care of that. He’s selling the camper.

That is what I plan to do. It’s really all him. I got the impression from her that she didn’t know any of this about him because why would she? They divorced back in august. She was suing him because his pitbull attacked her face and he was responsible for it. I thought it was odd that she would settle for the amount she did but didn’t get money from him through the divorce. She told me it’s none of my business. After she settled in October and got fired from his job… this is when he started to act different towards me. Hes very shady. He told the job he was working at that he wanted to be a girl ( that’s what he told me, it could be a lie for all I know) and that’s when (he feels) they started to act like they wanted to let him go because even before telling them that he was not going into work. So they fired him. And he plans to sue the company for 1 million dollars

Now that someone brought up the fact that his legal battles are over and he broke up with me and trying to get back with his ex wife, I DO feel it’s relevant because the legal battles involved HER. And I did all of that for him because of HER suing him. So for her to just be cool with him bothers me ALOT. It’s like all of this was for nothing if they end up being back together. I feel used. But I did tell her that the truck and camper is in my name so she knows.

Hmm good point. The legal battle involved his ex wife so that may be true. Once she received her money, coincidentally he started acting very distant. And we broke up.

I do… I just don’t understand why he felt the need to pretend he was a woman responding to my texts when I contacted him about getting my bike. It was like he was trying to make me mad or something which prompted me to bring up the engagement ring he got me. And his response led me to believe it was the ex wife or he wanted me to THINK it was the ex wife OR they are back together. So I had to contact her to find out and to let her know a few things on how our relationship was and the things he did for me. Then I’d go on with my life.