Danny76

If anyone wants to know, almost 2 years together. BTW, she does need to take meds as well. When she does take her meds, she's sweet and lovable. She promised me she would take them all the time back on Thanksgiving and do her behavioral therapy course but she didn't do that. She did wind up texting me several times later in the day to discuss podcasts about side businesses and stuff. so much for not texting me anymore

My (ex) girlfriend and myself have been having some issues the last couple of months. She has told me she was unhappy with our relationship. I have been inconsistent with making her happy all the time. Let me say that she has told me over and over that she has never been treated as good by any guy like how I have treated her. She has said numerous times that she would never do any better. She knows how good I am for her and her son and tells me that.I have my issues and quirks that I can see why she's not happy all the time. She has told me many times the last few months that she was not happy and she needed to keep focusing on her side business-which does require a lot of work-and raising her son. I always said I would step back and let her do what she has to do and I would deal with my issues as well. What ever happened after that who knows. She sets plans all the time and would be upset that I never did but the reality of it was I did have plans with my life. I told her of my plans and she was impressed with it and seemed surprise I never told her. So anyway, I wanted to make her happy so I planned a trip overseas and we went. She loved it but as soon as she got back she got rid of me. I told her how that would make her look bad. I do have some physical issues as well-some she knows about, some not and sometimes she insults me when I do something minor and klutzy not knowing of my physical issues (not that telling her would change her mind). Anyway, we got together for Christmas and she said that she loved spending Christmas with me and it was the best one she had in a long time-and even told co-workers this. We spent NYE together and we had a wonderful time staying at home with her son and play board games. Now she's telling me that she wants never to speak to me, come by, etc. She says she get anxiety now if I do (she wasn't getting anxiety when I was pulling out my credit card to pay for trip though-but don't criticize her on that). She wants to move on. I say she's upset with the fact that after having a wonderful time for holidays and making her happy, she's disappointed that I could never do that all the time. If she removes me completely from her life, she can try to forget her feelings for me. Thats my hypothesis. Of course I never bother her and we've been texting before this revelation to help me with my side business. Now she wants to completely remove me. I always back off and never pressure her to get back. Its pointless to pressure her to get back and work it out or do something nice for her to hear her go "AWWW". Let her do her thing and let me deal with my issues-albeit minor. She said she would text me next week to help me with my business. I know I'll run into her again too. Opinions and thoughts on this?