Kodomo

What you wrote exactly represents what I feel about this whole thing. If she feels that she must see my boyfriend alone, I think something is really strange there. She is very strange person though. I remember my boyfriend was telling me C cannot stand living with anybody, even with her boyfriend. C cannot be friends with other female. I do trust my boyfriend A. I want him to know. But more I talk about this issue, it makes him mad. He thinks I am wasting my time worrying about this since there is nothing to worry about. I just feel so overwhelmed with many feeling right now and feel almost sick. Last time when we went to a concert with C, we took her car and I ended up sitting in back seat alone while my boyfriend A and C were chatting all the way to the concert. I felt left out... Garrrrrrrrhhhhhh! Kodomo

Hi, I just had a big argument with my boyfriend on the phone. Here is the story. Me and my boyfriend has been together for over 2 years. We've started living together right after we met. Before we met, my boyfriend used hang out with some people from his work. One of them is this girl I am having a trouble with. Let's call her B. B has a very committed boyfriend but he is always gone for his business. So she spends a lot of her time with other 'guys'. Seems like she does not have any femal friends. She likes to hang out at bars. Naturally, after me and my boyfriend started our relationship, my boyfriend spent less time with his drinking buddies including her. She did not like it. She showed obvious jelous about me. Around the same time, one of the other guy my boyfriend hang out including C started dating with someone and he spent less time with anybody. For a while, my boyfriend, let's call him A, received e-mails and phone calls from C asking him to go out for dinner, concerts, etc. I explained why I was not comfortable about A going to C's without me. To begin with, why do I have to feel like uninvited? A understood my feeling and told C he would go concerts only if I go with him. Meanwhile, C was fired at work and this was the time A was always complaining about C's behavior at work. Seemed like A was tired of C. I thought "maybe I do not need to worry about her trying to do anything with A anymore." After she quit, she kept sending my boyfriend A e-mails. Every time she asked A for concerts, me and A got in to fight. He got mad and left me for concerts with her a few times. I felt alone. Plus he would get drunk and stopped by at her room to rest until he felt better. I trust him but I do not trust her. She does not even respect me. A has a girlfriend waiting for him at home. If I were her, I would call A's girlfriend to ask her to pick him up. I do not know. Am I too jelous? She just e-mailed him again asking him for another concerts. She did not even mention about me but my boyfriend e-mailed her back and told her "I only go if my girfriend would go." I got so upset and emotional and screwed this up again. Now he is telling he told her he would go alone with her without me. I begged him to give me tonight to convince him he should take me. I do not know, what to do. K