Lokey

I hope this helps- coming from a girl and all, but take it easy. You may not be ready for a relationship right now. Just hang out with these girls, and if you can't think of anything to talk about say whatever is on your mind. Even if you think its weird. The girl might be humored or it might spark a really good conversation. Oh, one more thing, make sure you ask questions about her. Most of the time when I meet a man he loves to talk about himself and I end up feeling that he should date himself and not me. Wish you luck!

I don't understand why I keep getting excuses about dates that are canceled on me. I am a responsible person, very confident (atleast thats what I am told). My friends tell me I keep going for the underdogs and that they find me intimidating. It's frustrating, I would like to find a guy that doesn't clam up after the second time I talk to him. I don't feel intimidating or that I am going for the underdogs. I like whom ever I like. I am very nice, and like to have fun. You could even call me a socialite, but the only dates I am getting are with my friends. Nothing wrong with that except I'm the only single one out of the whole group. Could I be doing something wrong? What are guys looking for in a woman?