@Wiseman2
Hey you,
I'm not "monitoring" him and his girlfriend (?!!?) 🤷♀️ I don't know where you got that from, in the begining I was sensitive to his reactions because he usually wouldn't act that way (the eye contact thing), which was I thing I noticed then as I tried to make sense of it for myself. I did feel hurt in the begining by what happened, but I've been over it now for quite some time and recognise that this turn of events was a blessing in desguise. I also never mentionned any harassment and I didn't imply it either, I just stated the facts to explain my situation, looking for advice as I didn't know what else I should do anymore. I'm not trying to control him either, he can do whatever he wants since yes it's his living space too. But I have a right to be left alone by a person I do not want to be involved with, and I did communicate to him that this was my wish. I do go out, I happen to do so less since Corona and since being inflicted by other health issues. I do date too, I spend time with friends and I also study (which I can't do at a library bc you know, Corona). And even so, I don't know why I shouldn't be allowed to be a homebody? I do use simple word answers and but like I said, he still keeps trying to chat. Which I don't want, because it drains me as in my opinion he is a butthole. I do wait till others are done to use the kitchen, but he still finds a reason to come. Honestly, I have tried being polite, if a person won't respect my boundaries by then, I don't see any reason to not be rude and ignore them.
Thank you for taking time to answer my post and for your well meant advice.