hiya1234

Hi i'm 5'2" and I have typically dated men between around 5'10" to 6'4". and slim or lean. that is just my preference. not that tall guys are better overall just a personal preference. i have been attracted to shorter or stockier guys on occasion too. i guess it's just the total package but like i said i do tend to strongly gravitate towards tallish slimish men, with darkish hair. my friend who is 5'10" usually likes guys medium hieght and stockier build and she goes for the more baby-faced type. so we don't end up fighting for the same guy too often! you know we all have our likes and dislikes and that's a good thing!

sheeesh! you are going to confuse the poor girl, but i think your advice has been good, and btw i do agree that usually guys are the ones who behave like idiots although sometimes, while much more infrequently, it's women. almost all failed relationships i've seen has failed because the guy did something(s) wrong or neglected to do something(s) and just simply made no or too little effort to rectify or improve the situation. sorry shido(sp?) i am not trying to be inciteful I'm just calling it like i see it.

hi i think there is a possibility she may be interested. she will lose hope if you do not act though. she can only get her hopes up a certain guy will ask her out for so long then she will decide she doesn't like him that way. i think you should casually express interest let her know you think she's special and would like to go out if she'd like to. this way if she declines, its no big deal. (and if she does decline just accept it and try to remain friendly. don't persecute a woman for turning you down, you wouldn't want a woman to do that to you if you simply weren't interested). you'll never know until you try, i really think you men have to learn to just put yourselves out there and ask more. she won't think youre a freak if she does reject you. especially if you take it well and do not overreact, she may even think youre a nice guy and down the road introduce you to her friend or something. (she will think your a freak if you overreact or start spreading rumers about her or acting mean, like some spurned suiters do Just try it, you have something to gain and nothing to lose. at least you'll know

your's caught my eye because I have somewhat the same problem except meeting guys of course. though mine has nothing to do with fear of men. and I have lived in the same area now for a long time. just that most women seem to just want to stay at home or do stuff where there are no men involved which is kind of lame for me since it makes it kind of hard to meet men. and with wonderful double standards cant go to a bar alone, or men assume you are looking for sex (?) (I personally don't see the correlation between the two, but.. I'm not the one who creates that double standard) Any suggestions would certainly be appreciated. I'm thinking of trying golf. but again like I mentioned before my friends seem to prefer activities that don't involve men being around, so I'm not sure if I'll even be able to do that alone. by the way the guy who told you to try a dog is right. first there are a lot of people who either don't like or are allergic to cats, plus you cant really walk up and play with it or get it to do tricks, right? second, do not try borrowing a baby like the said to on Friends, it truly would make many women run the other way or even if they do like kids they might not relish the thought of instant motherhood, or may just prefer to wait to have their own. if you already have one fine, don't hide that, there's nothing wrong with it, but do not pretend for reason mentioned above. the dog is the best approach. i would definitely be more inclined to talk to a person who had an adorable doggy with them.