brighteyes

Is it normal for me to still think about him all the time? I can't seem to get him out of my head no matter what I do. I have been going out with friends, even dating other guys, but no matter what I do, he is on my mind.

I was obsessed with psychics and tarot readings when everything first happened between me and my ex. They all said that he still loved me but that right now, he's all about himself. Which is true, he is in the middle of buying the house WE were supposed to move in to together and he is planning on going back to school. Two even said that we were soulmates and that we were supposed to be together. They wanted to do a spell to keep us together, but I felt that if we were truly meant to be together, he would come back to me at his own time. I do believe that saying... if you love someone, let them go, if they come back it was meant to be. ... Basically, I wouldn't want the ex back if it had to be forced.

It's been two months since my boyfriend and I broke up, and I still miss him like crazy, but I do realize that I CAN live without him, contrary to what I felt like the first month and a half. I swore I would die of a broken heart! I still miss him like crazy, but I'm learning so much about myself. I was full of regrets and blaming myself for what had happened, but in reality, it was both of us. If there is a future for us, this time apart was much needed. And if he isn't the one for me, than I can apply my new knowledge to the next relationship. I never thought those words would come out of my mouth!

I guess that's the scary thing when a relationship ends, and there is one person who hopes for a reconciliation. You think that by leaving a person alone, they will realize how much they miss you. At the same time, it can also be reversed. They can realize how well they can do without you.

Out of sight out of mind???? Any one want to make any comments on what they believe to be true? They contradict each other, unless it depends on the situation. Any takers?