Jenn2190

Why is it that he is the one who cheated on me with a 1 night stand and moved in together after they were caught the 2nd time while intoxicated. The first time he begged me to forgive him and went to counseling and changed his number. After 1 month no contact once again he got severely intoxicated and again she picked him up. They don’t have a place to go so are staying at a friends house. Now she is going through her divorce and he hasn’t contacted me. I tried to contact him but he has me blocked and I need to get some things to him. it’s been 14 days and no contact. he hasn’t even contacted his family who is close to him nor close friends. We know he is drinking quite a bit because he owed a local store about $500 in liquor. I’m just so upset about how he did this to me again.

My soon to be ex after being with him for almost 9 plus years did this::: he just had a one night and had just met her at their mutual friends house who introduced them that was on Father’s Day. September 4th He left with her for almost 10 days when he was severely intoxicated. He came back and asked me to forgive him. I was dumb and I did. We went through counseling and changed his number. 1 entire month later he was severely intoxicated once again and she picked him up. We haven’t had any contact with each other as I blocked his number. It’s been 12 days and they both live at a mutual friends house who introduced them. She is going through her divorce and now my soon to be ex lives with her and that mutual friends house who introduced them. it pisses me off but at the same time I kind of laugh it out because he can’t stand cats with a passion and she has 2 cats plus kittens. 😂 He hasn’t spoken to his family as he knows what they will say. My question is after giving him a chance why would he move in with a woman he knows in person for 2 weeks and leave only while intoxicated?? I tried.

No I don’t like drama. I just cared and loved him even after putting up with him for so long. I believe that for some reason he was remorseful as he only used this to win his way back (he didn’t have money nor a place to stay). I believe that’s the only reason he cried and asked for forgiveness at 430am that morning. right now I am focusing on myself and daughters. Trying to get through this. Im just upset and pissed off by the way he gets severely intoxicated and she picked him up at the house like no care from either of them in the world. She herself doesn’t have a house nor vehicle so they are living at their mutual friends house who intentionally introduced them.

No I am not an alcoholic. I really tried to help him. When he wasn’t drinking he was actually a very loving and caring man.

I was in a relationship for over 5 years. My ex was an alcoholic. He went to rebab 4 times. This year he was giving moral support to a coworker who lost her husband. She herself was already fooling around before her husband passed away. She introduced my husband to her friend. June Father’s Day he spent the night at her house but it was with her friend who filed for divorce in February. I caught them in the car doing it September 4th. That day he got severely intoxicated and had the 2 woman pick him up. September 13 he begs me to take him back. I was an idiot and I did. October 16th he got severely intoxicated again and started to provoke me and I told him I knew why he was doing that. Sure enough he calls the 2 woman up and they pick him up. My ex and the one who is filing for divorce are living at the woman’s house who lost her husband and is also now seeing a married man. The other 2 don’t have a house to go. I have blocked his number as I know he will contact me. I know it won’t last as much as I put up with him.