Walrus007

My girlfriend stays at her ex husbands house. No matter how I have tried to convey to her that I don't like it for several reasons. The main reason is She cant even take it if my ex were to call me for a brief talk about our kids. Or even if a childhood friend wanted me to go camping she flips out. She tried to gaslight me im sure. Saying Im a weak man and insecure of her ex. She claims she has no other place to stay. Her oldest son lives with her ex husband and she has a grandbaby there too. So I feel guilty not agreeing with it. The fact is she has about a dozen friends that live 5 minute to 45 minutes from her exs house. her parents are insane rich and have a giant home 20 minutes from her exs house. Also her parents offer to pay for her to have a Hotel with all the fixings, and that is less than 5 minutes from her ex. She admits that she would not be ok if I was doing this. But gets all crazy mad and says very hurtful stuff. I end up feeling bad for bringing it up. I think if you are in a relationship you don't stay at your exs house overnight under the guise its for the kids and that its the only place to go when you have plenty of options to stay other spots. Am I being a lame insecure ass hat or am I valid feeling that this is a huge disrespect. When I get verbally attacked for not liking it that's what makes me think bad thought. Just today I said I was going to see my friends and family for thanksgiving. She said she didnt like my friend Larry and if I went to visit to not come back home. I have been so understanding I feel lke I have lost who I am. Thank you all in advance. Please advise advise advise. Lost In thought